33 year old cyber bullies a dying 7 year old

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I can't fathom how someone can do that. Too many fucking assholes in this world. It's not clear from the article if this little girl has symptoms of the disease yet, but if she does she doesn't have long to live. The disease progresses rapidly in children if they present with symptoms at a young age. If not, she could live into her 40's and 50's, but to torment a girl who lost her mother to it is dispicable and cowardly.

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20019377-10391704.html

Seven-year-old Kathleen Edward knows what it's like to die from Huntington's Disease. Last year, the debilitating disorder, which progressively destroys the mind and control of the body, took her mother's life.



Kathleen has it too.



But the disease is not her only nemesis. Kathleen is also the victim of a horrifying cyberbullying attack and the perpetrator is a 33-year-old neighbor, Jennifer Petkov.



Petkov admitted to WJBK News in Detroit that she had posted ghoulish art work of the child on her Facebook page. The picture showed the Kathleen's face - eyes closed and tongue lolling out - with a pair of crossed bones beneath it.



Petkov also admitted to posting a Photoshopped image of Kathleen's mother cradled by the Grim Reaper.





When asked why she did it, Petkov sounded a lot like a high school mean girl. "Personal satisfaction," she told the station. "Because it rubs their a-s raw."



"Cyberbullying gives people the opportunity to be more aggressive than they would allow themselves to be in person," Dr. Samuelle Klein-Von Reiche, a clinical psychologist in private practice in Manhattan, tells CBS News. "There is a weaker sense of personal responsibility. You don't have to confront someone directly."



Still, there had been plenty of public confrontation in the past. Police said they visited the two homes on several occasions, as the families had been feuding for years.



More recently, neighbors in Trenton, Mich., told the local news station that Petkov and her husband decorated their pickup to look like a hearse, strapped a homemade coffin on top, and drove it back and forth in front of the home Kathleen shares with her father and step mother. Petkov said it was just a Halloween prank.



The origins of the dispute are unclear, but that seems less important than the question of why, and how, a person could be so cruel?



Dr. Klein-Von Reiche, who can't comment on this specific case, says there are several possible explanations for why an adult would bully a child.





"People who believe that cruelty is an acceptable means to channel interpersonal conflict, often suffer from severe narcissism with an antisocial element," she says.



In addition, she adds, we live in a media culture where over-the-top drama, including vicious fighting on reality TV, is pervasive. "For someone who already has questionable judgment," she says, "that only reinforces the idea that extreme mental cruelty is acceptable."





The Edward family now has a restraining order against the Petkovs, and the neighborhood has banded together in support of the little girl. A Facebook group, "We Love You Kathleen," has almost 4,000 members. A toy store in Ann Arbor raised $9,000 for a shopping spree, according to WJBK.





Petkov and her husband have made a public apology and dismantled the coffin on top of the "hearse." Small favors for a girl who faces a disease without cure.



According to the Mayo Clinic, Huntington's is "a progressive, degenerative disease that causes certain nerve cells in your brain to waste away." The result is uncontrolled movements, mental disturbances, and death. Symptoms usually develop in middle age. It is rare for children to show sings of the genetic disorder, but it can progress faster if they do.
 

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Well there's someone who will be rotting in hell.

I wouldn't be surprised at all if someone from that town or elsewhere does something horrible to her now that this story is out.
 

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"People who believe that cruelty is an acceptable means to channel interpersonal conflict, often suffer from severe narcissism with an antisocial element," she says.

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Psycho-Babble for "People are Fucked Up"
 

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Interwebs: Making the general populace virtual tough guys and assholes with no regard since Al Gore invented it!
 

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{{{sighs}}} I've just come to accept that some people in this world are depraved and there is really nothing more than can be said.
 

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It amazes me how anyone can get satisfaction from hurting someone else.
 

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Dissatisfaction with themselves. That's all it is, Bri. That and it's human nature to be an asshole.



Personally, it just boggles my mind that this is just because of a Family Feud. Just because someone s a douchebag, doesn't mean who they are related to are as well. Something tells me this 7-year old did nothing that would warrant this kind of treatment.
 

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[quote name="LordKOTL"]Dissatisfaction with themselves. That's all it is, Bri. That and it's human nature to be an asshole.

Personally, it just boggles my mind that this is just because of a Family Feud. Just because someone s a douchebag, doesn't mean who they are related to are as well. Something tells me this 7-year old did nothing that would warrant this kind of treatment.[/quote]

I 100% disagree with that. I don't think it's human nature at all to be an asshole. In fact the vast majority of the people that I know are well intentioned, kind hearted people. Yes, everyone has it in them to be an asshole and we all are from time to time. Generally I these cases of sick, depraved people are rare. We hear about them often because our instant news these days. If it happens and it sounds atrocious the whole country knows within a few days. In general they show all the fucked up knews with only a smattering of the positive news. Looking at all the people I interact with on this board there have only been a few that I truly thought were assholes, and that's out of over 100. It's just one example, but I just don't think it's human nature to be an asshole.
 

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[quote name="phranchk"]

I 100% disagree with that. I don't think it's human nature at all to be an asshole. In fact the vast majority of the people that I know are well intentioned, kind hearted people. Yes, everyone has it in them to be an asshole and we all are from time to time. Generally I these cases of sick, depraved people are rare. We hear about them often because our instant news these days. If it happens and it sounds atrocious the whole country knows within a few days. In general they show all the fucked up knews with only a smattering of the positive news. Looking at all the people I interact with on this board there have only been a few that I truly thought were assholes, and that's out of over 100. It's just one example, but I just don't think it's human nature to be an asshole.[/quote]

See, I disagree...I thnk it is human nature to be an asshole, but for the most part, people are trained/indoctrinated/brought up not to be, and if the traning sticks and is logical (for the most part it is), it becomes second nature to be a decent person.



The people that aren't for the most part I think just don't have that indoctrination from the youngest age. If you see a generous person, it's likley from the earliest age they were taught it's good and right to be generous. Further, it made complete logical sense to them to be that way. Meanwhile...do you have to teach a kid to be stingy?



And this doesn't say that people who we're "raised right" aren't going to turn out bad, or those that weren't aren't. But for the most part, I've noticed that good behavior is learned, while bad behavior seems instinctual.



But that this with as much salt as necessary...my last psych evaluation had a huge leaning towrds Misanthropy. :)
 

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[quote name="LordKOTL"]

See, I disagree...I thnk it is human nature to be an asshole, but for the most part, people are trained/indoctrinated/brought up not to be, and if the traning sticks and is logical (for the most part it is), it becomes second nature to be a decent person.



The people that aren't for the most part I think just don't have that indoctrination from the youngest age. If you see a generous person, it's likley from the earliest age they were taught it's good and right to be generous. Further, it made complete logical sense to them to be that way. Meanwhile...do you have to teach a kid to be stingy?



And this doesn't say that people who we're "raised right" aren't going to turn out bad, or those that weren't aren't. But for the most part, I've noticed that good behavior is learned, while bad behavior seems instinctual.



But that this with as much salt as necessary...my last psych evaluation had a huge leaning towrds Misanthropy. :)[/quote]

I would thing that the bad behavior that you say is instinctual is survival behavior. Lie, cheat, steal to survive. I don't think those "instincts" are inherently bad. It makes a person bad or an asshole in a civilized society. The type of activity shown here is beyond that, which I think would have to be something learned and indoctrined as well.
 

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[quote name="phranchk"]

I would thing that the bad behavior that you say is instinctual is survival behavior. Lie, cheat, steal to survive. I don't think those "instincts" are inherently bad. It makes a person bad or an asshole in a civilized society. The type of activity shown here is beyond that, which I think would have to be something learned and indoctrined as well.[/quote]



Okay, take 2:



I agree...that level is learned/reinforced. Wanting to hurt someone who hurt you--yes, it's instinct. Wanting to hurt someone that's related to someone that hurt you? That's indoctrinated...and they did say there was a family feud going on.
 

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She gets self-satifaction because it rubs the victim's family's "ass raw"? Some people don't deserve to live.
 

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Obviously a lot of hatred from that woman doing this. Sounds like a neighbor dispute but to take it out on a child? My guess is they are trying to hurt the adults by tormenting their child - deep hatred showing here. Just awful situation. Hopefully someone takes it out on their ass. I know I would go postal if someone were doing that to my kid and rolling a coffin in front of our house to simulate the death countdown.
 

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If there's any justice in the world, /b/ will end her.
 

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IMO, it is not that in human nature that everyone is an asshole, just that for many people it is far easier to be a pain in the ass rather than helpful or civil.



Throw someone into an environment where they are not face to face with the other person, then the pain in the ass becomes that much easier. There is no direct interaction on what your comments and intents do, and less fear of backlash.
 

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[quote name="JOVE23"]If there's any justice in the world, /b/ will end her.[/quote]



I haven't been over there in awhile, I'm sure that raid has already begun. She seems so unstable that maybe /b/ can make her an hero.
 

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But but but.... she brought the camera crew into her house and apologized deeply. THen lit a candle on her porch like everyone else... so all is forgotten.
 

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[quote name="phranchk"]

I 100% disagree with that. I don't think it's human nature at all to be an asshole. In fact the vast majority of the people that I know are well intentioned, kind hearted people. Yes, everyone has it in them to be an asshole and we all are from time to time. Generally I these cases of sick, depraved people are rare. We hear about them often because our instant news these days. If it happens and it sounds atrocious the whole country knows within a few days. In general they show all the fucked up knews with only a smattering of the positive news. Looking at all the people I interact with on this board there have only been a few that I truly thought were assholes, and that's out of over 100. It's just one example, but I just don't think it's human nature to be an asshole.[/quote]





I hope I'm not one of them.
 

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[quote name="bri"]





I hope I'm not one of them.[/quote]

I seriously doubt that. I pretty much have you pegged as the board's resident sweetheart.
 

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