Girls Night Out

[beardown28]

What do you guys with girlfriends, fiancees, or wives think about girls night out. I know that my girlfriend has to have time away from me obviously but I just get irked by the idea. Mainly because us guys never really have a guys night we just go golfing... Idk just wanted to see what some other people thought about it.

 

[DewsSox79]

im married.

i would say that it is extremely healthy and important for both girl/guy nights every once in a while.

 

[Captain Iago]

You're not really specifying what it is that irks you about it. Is it the name of it or the concept? Or, something else?

If it is solely the name "girls' night out," then what's in a name? I can understand this, after all, it is a stupid name.

If it's the concept, are you being possessive and distrusting? In which case, this also puts you squarely in "ass" category, too, imo.

Guys can have a "guys' night out," too and often do...drinking, bullshitting, poker, video gaming, movie watching, sports watching all qualify...even though all you do with your buds is golf.

I've always pushed my girl/wife to be social with her girlfriends. It is healthy.

 

[DewsSox79]

You're not really specifying what it is that irks you about it. Is it the name of it or the concept?

If it is solely the name "girls' night out," then what's in a name? I can understand this, after all, it is a stupid name.

If it's the concept, are you being possessive and distrusting? In which case, this also puts you squarely in "ass" category, too, imo.

Guys can have a "guys' night out," too and often do...drinking, bullshitting, poker, video gaming, movie watching, sports watching all qualify...even though all you do with your buds is golf.

anyone who gets worried about their girl on a "girls night" shouldnt be with that person, let alone be dating if they are going to be that obsessive.

 

[Crystallas]

You're missing the great opportunity left by your woman, if she wants to go out with the gals!

1.) Peace. Yes, no more rag whine! Sure, you'll have to listen to her lame stories about girl talk for a few minutes, but come on, real men tune that stuff out anyways.
2.) If she comes home shitfaced.... SCORE! You get a pass when you come home shitfaced sometime.
3.) Double score. You don't have to take her to do this kind of thing and fill her entertainment and gossip needs. She does it with her friends, you can take her someplace more gender neutral!
4.) Yes, guys night out. R U F-ing serious? Do you seriously want to take your girlfriend to certain places? I love my womens like the next fella, but you're a turd if you blow off your old mates for a girl. Bros' before hoes'.

Seriously dude, you should be welcoming of the girls night out. Unless you're tagging along with the gals to taste fondue at some pinkish club and talk about gender superiority complexes!

 

[IvyPickin87]

I fucking love girls night out are you kidding me? Dont get me wrong i love my girlfriend but i have to have some time away from her, or i will go insane. Usually we plan it that she will go out with her friends and i will go with mine. But if she goes out and i stay in im fine with that too, no one to gripe at me about playing video games, watching sports, jerkin it lol, dude relax if you are in a healthy relationship it shouldnt be a problem. It comes down to trust if you trust her there shouldnt be an issue.

 

[poodski]

Yeah girls night is the best night of the week.

 

[cubsneedmiracle]

Yeah dude.. Its completely necessary..

 

[bobferg]

I don't even live with my girl, and I would go crazy if she didn't have girl night/days out.

 

[beardown28]

Haha I wasn't really freaking out about it just seeing what you all thought about it. Plus I was tanked when I posted it. Mardi Gras in Cincinnati last night haha.

 

[Shawon0Meter]

I guess it's possible they're sucking whipped cream off of a male stripper who's wearing a giant bear head but maybe that's just on the internet.

 

[zack54attack]

I didn't like some of my ex gf's friends.. so I was kinda pissed when she stayed out with them

 

[Crystallas]

I didn't like some of my ex gf's friends.. so I was kinda pissed when she stayed out with them

Bitches will be bitches. You just gotta kill'em with kindness and eventually they start to seem like bad friends to your girl. If your girl doesn't get it, then red-flags should be up all over the place!

 

[Jysen]

I have no issues with the concept of a Girls Night Out. Its beyond healthly to keep some distance and sanity. Unless the guy doesnt trust her, than it begs to question the sanity of the guy staying with her in the 1st place. But theres the most common dilemma/scenario where the ***** is insane. Where she can go out, but when you plan the same, she goes mental. If either side cant trust the other, than theres jealousy issues and other red flags. At which point, personally, I hit the eject button and :gtfo:

 

[thedude33]

No matter what they tell you, "Girls Night Out" really means they're getting double teamed by big black guys. Fact.

 

[cubsneedmiracle]

I have no issues with the concept of a Girls Night Out. Its beyond healthly to keep some distance and sanity. Unless the guy doesnt trust her, than it begs to question the sanity of the guy staying with her in the 1st place. But theres the most common dilemma/scenario where the ***** is insane. Where she can go out, but when you plan the same, she goes mental. If either side cant trust the other, than theres jealousy issues and other red flags. At which point, personally, I hit the eject button and :gtfo:

Well put

 

[Anytime23]

I'm currently single but when I do have a gf, it's a good thing to have but it depends on the friends and how easily they can manipulate ur gf.

Bd28 you motorboating sob. Let's get Niemi and have a guys night out.

 

[Jntg4]

I'm currently single but when I do have a gf, it's a good thing to have but it depends on the friends and how easily they can manipulate ur gf.

Bd28 you motorboating sob. Let's get Niemi and have a guys night out.

I thought you were talking about Niemi the player at first... or were you?

Crawford>Niemi.

 

[Jntg4]

I guess it's possible they're sucking whipped cream off of a male stripper who's wearing a giant bear head but maybe that's just on the internet.

Could be even worse than that (for beardown28)...
but I doubt it.

But I think the bear might be zack...

 

[EnjoyYourTiger]

Could be even worse than that (for beardown28)...
but I doubt it.

But I think the bear might be zack...

The bear is Charlie Sheen, duh.