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So I came across this video on yahoo. and the comments supporting waiting until marriage to have sex utterly startled me.
I am all for in a dating situation having a girl make me wait, but not until friggin marriage. If all women did that I would be married right now and I can assure you pretty unhappily (or divorced). Why the hell do you think people in the 40s and 50's seemed to marry the first person they dated after like 6 months.....gramps wanted to tap that ass. Taking your unfullfilled desire to have sex with a person out of the equation of marriage can help you make that decision more clearly without having a year long pent up desire to have sex with the girl clouding your judgement.
and of course theres women painting all men as manipulative villains. Women can be plenty fucking aggressive themselves dont pin the existence of premarital sex on men just going around beating womens walls down with sledgehammers until they give it up.
Im not saying if thats some peoples thing to wait until marriage its wrong. I am not. But its kind of annoying having people blame premarital sex for all the ills in the world.
So I came across this video on yahoo. and the comments supporting waiting until marriage to have sex utterly startled me.
I am all for in a dating situation having a girl make me wait, but not until friggin marriage. If all women did that I would be married right now and I can assure you pretty unhappily (or divorced). Why the hell do you think people in the 40s and 50's seemed to marry the first person they dated after like 6 months.....gramps wanted to tap that ass. Taking your unfullfilled desire to have sex with a person out of the equation of marriage can help you make that decision more clearly without having a year long pent up desire to have sex with the girl clouding your judgement.
and of course theres women painting all men as manipulative villains. Women can be plenty fucking aggressive themselves dont pin the existence of premarital sex on men just going around beating womens walls down with sledgehammers until they give it up.
Im not saying if thats some peoples thing to wait until marriage its wrong. I am not. But its kind of annoying having people blame premarital sex for all the ills in the world.