Question For Men, Especially Ones Who Have Been Divorced

[bri]

When you got divorced or if you got divorced would you be calling your ex wife up every day asking her to send you money?



This is happening to someone I work with. Some of you will remember around Christmas that I made the comment "why do people even bother to get married?" I was upset at the time because I learned someone I knew was getting a divorce and it was someone that I never thought would. This was an extremely religious couple. Well, right after Christmas my friend admitted to all of us that they got divorced because he is ***. He had already moved out East and was trying to conceal it from his family and decent person that my friend is she kept jis secret. He calls her almost every single day wanting money. We keep telling her to tell him No. She hasn't even changed her bank account and he overdrew her account the other day. I think this is terrible of him and maintain most men would have too much self respect to do this. Am I wrong?

 

[sth]

Yeah that is a pretty creepy move by him. I know I wouldn't do something like that. Most people wouldn't do stuff like that. I don't think it is a common move that men make. I hope she changes her bank account. They are divorced he should be able to take care of himself now or get help somewhere else. She has to be strong and say no to him. But most people won't do that stuff. But I've never been divorced so I don't know for sure.

 

[jakobeast]

She must start her own bank account immediately. She should stop any and all communication with him.



Until she does, she deserves every heartache and overdraft fee and every shit storm she receives.

 

[R K]

And that's exactly how Judge Judy will see it Jako!

 

[jakobeast]

And that's exactly how Judge Judy will see it Jako!

Who wouldn't toss one into her?

 

[bubbleheadchief]

I am divorced and I don't know if my ex is alive to be honest. There is no way in hell I would call her and ask her for money.



If there is nothing to keep you talking to each other, such as kids or some type of joint business venture (believe it or not, I know a divorced couple that opened a club together and remained co-owners even after the divorce....ducets are rolling in from it) then you cut your ties and get on with your life.



jako, that is a new low, even for you.

 

[R K]

I am divorced and I don't know if my ex is alive to be honest. There is no way in hell I would call her and ask her for money.



If there is nothing to keep you talking to each other, such as kids or some type of joint business venture (believe it or not, I know a divorced couple that opened a club together and remained co-owners even after the divorce....ducets are rolling in from it) then you cut your ties and get on with your life.



jako, that is a new low, even for you.

Nothing surprises me anymore. Although come to think of it I bet she's a feisty lay.

 

[bri]

I think she is a man

 

[BigPete]

This poor girl is being used...letting herself be used...he probably isn't even ***.



I am with Chief though. I was pissed that my last ex wife stayed in town when the only real thing keeping her here is a pretty good job that she couldn't possibly get in Chicago. She was making 25 grand a year before we got married and now is doing something totally different making at least 65 grand a year. We have mutual friends, or at least some of my friends still keep tabs on her, but I have no clue what the **** she has going on in her life and I don't want to. I would never have called her even if I was broke and dieing and needed a familiar person that lived close to help me. But then again, she cheated on me and I kicked her out of my life. So it isn't the same.



But if SHE started asking me for money...I'd tell her to **** off and die!

 

[bri]

This poor girl is being used...letting herself be used...he probably isn't even ***.



I am with Chief though. I was pissed that my last ex wife stayed in town when the only real thing keeping her here is a pretty good job that she couldn't possibly get in Chicago. She was making 25 grand a year before we got married and now is doing something totally different making at least 65 grand a year. We have mutual friends, or at least some of my friends still keep tabs on her, but I have no clue what the **** she has going on in her life and I don't want to. I would never have called her even if I was broke and dieing and needed a familiar person that lived close to help me. But then again, she cheated on me and I kicked her out of my life. So it isn't the same.



But if SHE started asking me for money...I'd tell her to **** off and die!

No he is *** and from what I hear he has been two timing his *** bf with another one in Missouri. I think what he needs and wants is a *** sugar daddy to take care of him. I told you they were very religious. His dad is a minister at one of those weird churches. I have no problem with him being *** except for the fact that he ragged on me all the time because I had a couple male friends that were *** and he thought that was terrible.

 

[sth]

No he is *** and from what I hear he has been two timing his *** bf with another one in Missouri. I think what he needs and wants is a *** sugar daddy to take care of him. I told you they were very religious. His dad is a minister at one of those weird churches. I have no problem with him being *** except for the fact that he ragged on me all the time because I had a couple male friends that were *** and he thought that was terrible.

Those guys are always the worst. The ones that make such a big deal about how they hate *** people and its an abomintation. It is amazing how many of those guys turn out to be ***.

 

[Ymono37]

Who wouldn't toss one into her?

You should let her pee on your shoes and tell you it's rain.

 

[bri]

You should let her pee on your shoes and tell you it's rain.

I knew you two were adventurous, but I never pictured you as liking water sports.

 

[Ymono37]

I knew you two were adventurous, but I never pictured you as liking water sports.

Actually Jako is more into Roman Showers...

 

[jakobeast]

Actually Jako is more into Roman Showers...

And Angry Dragons and the occasional Mississippi Handbag

 

[bri]

And Angry Dragons and the occasional Mississippi Handbag

I don't know what those are. I just know what Water Sports are cause of Rescue Me. It had to do with the color of the bandana they had. I think the yellow one signifies you're into water sports.

 

[bri]

Here's a link to the Handkerchief Code. I'm sure you'll want to make sure you are giving off the right vibes.





http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handkerchief_codes

 

[jakobeast]

Here's a link to the Handkerchief Code. I'm sure you'll want to make sure you are giving off the right vibes.





http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handkerchief_codes

So that's why I always have my keys on my right side belt loop.

 

[CaveMan]

I never knew there was a code....No hankys for me

 

[mikita's helmet]

Those guys are always the worst. The ones that make such a big deal about how they hate *** people and its an abomintation. It is amazing how many of those guys turn out to be ***.

Unable to come to terms with themselves so they lash out at those who are able to come to terms with what they hate about themselevs. A lot of self-loathing must be involved.