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Woman marries the biological father, non-bio father still court ordered to pay child support.
This is an old story but I was discussing these situations with a female friend of mine recently and un-surprisingly this is something women have a very different outlook on than men. She see's nothing wrong with that, and doesn't understand men's anger, its your kid. Like men can't go through abortion, technically, women would naturally never have a situation where they have a baby that unknowingly isn't theirs.
I think from a male perspective, it is more of a biological thing and an extreme level of humiliation. I mean its one thing a spouse cheating, its a whole next level when you have a child you know may not be theirs and dont reveal it.
There was another story I read where the guy and his wife had 4 kids, he caught her cheating, got divorced and found out all but the youngest were not his, and it turns out the guy he caught her cheating with and she subsequently married was the father of the other 3, so he had been puttin his buns in her oven for years all for this guy to raise.
below was a study done in the US. I watched a documentary where apparently the worldwide rates are estimated to be even worse, that suggested biologically women look for different men for making, then raising a child.
[font=Georgia, serif]And then there are those who never even discover the biological truth. How many fall in that category is impossible to quantify. The most extensive and authoritative report, published in Current Anthropology in 2006, analyzed scores of genetic studies. The report concluded that 2 percent of men with “high paternity confidence” — married men who had every reason to believe they were their children’s father — were, in fact, not biological parents. Several studies indicate that the rate appears to be far higher among unmarried fathers.[/font]
So what would you do if you found out your kid wasnt yours?
This is an old story but I was discussing these situations with a female friend of mine recently and un-surprisingly this is something women have a very different outlook on than men. She see's nothing wrong with that, and doesn't understand men's anger, its your kid. Like men can't go through abortion, technically, women would naturally never have a situation where they have a baby that unknowingly isn't theirs.
I think from a male perspective, it is more of a biological thing and an extreme level of humiliation. I mean its one thing a spouse cheating, its a whole next level when you have a child you know may not be theirs and dont reveal it.
There was another story I read where the guy and his wife had 4 kids, he caught her cheating, got divorced and found out all but the youngest were not his, and it turns out the guy he caught her cheating with and she subsequently married was the father of the other 3, so he had been puttin his buns in her oven for years all for this guy to raise.
below was a study done in the US. I watched a documentary where apparently the worldwide rates are estimated to be even worse, that suggested biologically women look for different men for making, then raising a child.
[font=Georgia, serif]And then there are those who never even discover the biological truth. How many fall in that category is impossible to quantify. The most extensive and authoritative report, published in Current Anthropology in 2006, analyzed scores of genetic studies. The report concluded that 2 percent of men with “high paternity confidence” — married men who had every reason to believe they were their children’s father — were, in fact, not biological parents. Several studies indicate that the rate appears to be far higher among unmarried fathers.[/font]
So what would you do if you found out your kid wasnt yours?
