A sensitive way to find out how someone died

[PatrickSharpRules]

If you didn't lie, then you didn't read his original post and you are an even bigger idiot for offer up advice out of context.

This.



You can stand by everything you say Fuffle, it only makes you look like more of a brain stem than you have already proven to be.

 

[Kerfuffle]

She looked better now, thats a photo of her from 2004.

heres a more recent photo.

You're right - very pretty!

 

[E Runs]

Theres tons of articles on this online now, and almost all of them mention that 2004 incident.



I just saw her that friday the 10th. Its wierd, even though I was just acquainted with her, you cant help but think what you could have done to prevent this. One of the articles confirms she hung herself. Very beautiful girl too, such a shame.

Holy shit I remember reading aboot that when it happened. She got arrested outside Crobar and ended up kicking oot the windows of the cop car.

 

[Kerfuffle]

Holy shit I remember reading aboot that when it happened. She got arrested outside Crobar and ended up kicking oot the windows of the cop car.

I read about it too at the time. I remember the papers reported it as 2 spoiled brats at the time and that when the cop stopped them they said "don't you know who we are?".

 

[R K]

So this past weekend a girl I worked with in passing (Ive said hi to her a few times that was the extent), died over the weekend. She was only 27 years old. I am ridiculously curious what the **** happened. But dont want to seem like an insensitive prick going around floating emails saying how did this chick die. She was a very attractive woman.



They linked us an online Obit, but it had no details as to her death. I checked her out online to see if there were any articles about car accidents or anything like that. Been consuming my day today, whenever anyone dies this young, I am always dreadfully curious as to what happened.



EDIT:



I don't want to mention her name here. When I looked her up online to see if I could find any news, I found some tid bits about run ins with the law when she was in college. One incident which involved kicking out a squad cars window, and yes I am 100% positive it is the same person. So given past history that makes me even more interested.

TSD I just went through this with my buddy from College about three weeks ago. I found his wife I had never met on facebook because her name was in the OBIT. There were three and I guess strangely I picked the right one the first time.



I said something like this.



Hi, I know this is going to sound strange if you are not the right person but I have been looking for a good friend of mine for quite some time. In this search my wife sadly found an obituary and your name was printed in there........ Ect ect.....



Like I said shockingly she responded within a half hour and I talked to her for about 5 hours that night. She knew all about me, but I knew nothing about her.



Very sad.



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I just go to the end of the thread. Nothing I can say makes anything better. Hang in there buddy. I know what you are going through. I'm still angry and sad over what happened. And very much confused.

 

[TSD]

TSD I just went through this with my buddy from College about three weeks ago. I found his wife I had never met on facebook because her name was in the OBIT. There were three and I guess strangely I picked the right one the first time.



I said something like this.



Hi, I know this is going to sound strange if you are not the right person but I have been looking for a good friend of mine for quite some time. In this search my wife sadly found an obituary and your name was printed in there........ Ect ect.....



Like I said shockingly she responded within a half hour and I talked to her for about 5 hours that night. She knew all about me, but I knew nothing about her.



Very sad.



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I just go to the end of the thread. Nothing I can say makes anything better. Hang in there buddy. I know what you are going through. I'm still angry and sad over what happened. And very much confused.

We werent very close or anything. I just saw her everyday and talked to her on occation. But it is just so fucked up when someone dies like that, and seriously, regardless of how close you are its tragic, and you keep thinking what you could have done, because had I known anything was wrong maybe I could have done something.

 

[bubbleheadchief]

TSD, there is no sensitive way to inquire as to how someone passed. No matter what, the question alone will open up a raw nerve or wound of some type.



Suicide is the worst becasue it leaves everyone asking what could I have done, from the closest family member to the most distant acquantence (sp????)

 

[R K]

We werent very close or anything. I just saw her everyday and talked to her on occation. But it is just so fucked up when someone dies like that, and seriously, regardless of how close you are its tragic, and you keep thinking what you could have done, because had I known anything was wrong maybe I could have done something.

I've been in that place for about a month now. Constantly thinking had I tried earlier maybe just maybe I could have talked some sense into him. But in the end no matter what I think had he wanted help he'd have gotten it. Which is probably the reason we hadn't seen him in so many years.



Very sad regardless of how well one knows someone. It becomes worse the closer you are/were.