Checking Friends (not a hockey thread)

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I have a question for the good people at CCS.
When a buddy of yours does something stupid, do you check them? Do you put them back in line? Or is it time to walk away from the situation and let life take its course? I'm a tad older, so I don't really give a shit about much, but the situation below irked me.

Case:
I have a buddy that just dropped on his ex wife (that he was living with--not employed) that he's leaving Indiana for Florida to begin the next stage in his life. This next stage equates to leaving his two children to be with a woman in florida with 3 children.
Do I:
A. Check him and tell him he's being a selfish prick
B. Let him do his own thing and **** it up on his own (I'm leaning toward this)
C. A bit of A and B
D. Dany
E. Type in your CCS opinion
 

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Is his ex hot? Because it sounds like she is available.

This might have been better as a hockey thread.
 

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It probably won't make any difference either way.

Edit: So I guess that's a Dany.
 

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Something like that, probably not going to make a difference. You can relay your feelings about leaving his kids behind, but that's about it.
 

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And in answer to Paul, if you are good friends with him and his wife, I would check him... tell him he should at least be there for his kids.

If not.... I would let him derp his way to Florida, can't be responsible for everyone's shitty life decisions.
 

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Some additional info would be nice. Does the ex or MILF in Florida go ATM? Are either set of kids exploitable?
 

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Frankly you shouldn't involve yourself in friends' love lives. Leaving the kids behind though is shit. That is the only part that irks me. In reality it just shows you have a shit friend with no conscience.
 

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If I was in that situation, I would ask him if he thinks the situation he wants to move into is going to end up any different overall than the situation he's in now--long-term.

If he thinks yes, than Ba'alspeed to him.

If he thinks no, then tell him to focus on what he has now

If he can't think that far ahead, he's one dumb motherfucker.
 

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Frankly you shouldn't involve yourself in friends' love lives. Leaving the kids behind though is shit. That is the only part that irks me. In reality it just shows you have a shit friend with no conscience.

Pretty much this.
 

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I have a question for the good people at CCS.
When a buddy of yours does something stupid, do you check them? Do you put them back in line? Or is it time to walk away from the situation and let life take its course? I'm a tad older, so I don't really give a shit about much, but the situation below irked me.

Case:
I have a buddy that just dropped on his ex wife (that he was living with--not employed) that he's leaving Indiana for Florida to begin the next stage in his life. This next stage equates to leaving his two children to be with a woman in florida with 3 children.
Do I:
A. Check him and tell him he's being a selfish prick
B. Let him do his own thing and **** it up on his own (I'm leaning toward this)
C. A bit of A and B
D. Dany
E. Type in your CCS opinion

Tell him to move to Montana instead.
 

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TL;DR, is this a thread about group prostate exams or something?
 

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Is that a groupon?
 

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I have a question for the good people at CCS.
When a buddy of yours does something stupid, do you check them? Do you put them back in line? Or is it time to walk away from the situation and let life take its course? I'm a tad older, so I don't really give a shit about much, but the situation below irked me.

Case:
I have a buddy that just dropped on his ex wife (that he was living with--not employed) that he's leaving Indiana for Florida to begin the next stage in his life. This next stage equates to leaving his two children to be with a woman in florida with 3 children.
Do I:
A. Check him and tell him he's being a selfish prick
B. Let him do his own thing and **** it up on his own (I'm leaning toward this)
C. A bit of A and B
D. Dany
E. Type in your CCS opinion

Grimson never told me he's married or has kids. That's fucked up, shame on him.
 

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Punch him in the face a few times. Leave his kids. **** him.
 

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I have a question for the good people at CCS.
When a buddy of yours does something stupid, do you check them? Do you put them back in line? Or is it time to walk away from the situation and let life take its course? I'm a tad older, so I don't really give a shit about much, but the situation below irked me.

Case:
I have a buddy that just dropped on his ex wife (that he was living with--not employed) that he's leaving Indiana for Florida to begin the next stage in his life. This next stage equates to leaving his two children to be with a woman in florida with 3 children.
Do I:
A. Check him and tell him he's being a selfish prick
B. Let him do his own thing and **** it up on his own (I'm leaning toward this)
C. A bit of A and B
D. Dany
E. Type in your CCS opinion

The answer is always B.
 

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Punch him in the face a few times. Leave his kids. **** him.

All I'm reading is Bill Cosby the **** out of his drink and have some "Goodbye Horses" on the playlist.
I like where this thread is headed.
 

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