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Don't get too bothered by the frustration JLeigh, it happens. When I was in my 20's I got aggravated as well, but I learned from my bad experiences. You will learn about what filters you want, and probably adjust your dating accordingly. Half the battle is figuring out what you want.

I'm 41 now, and I am tired of really close relationships but love meeting women, which gets me in trouble at times. I absolutely love meeting women and getting to know them, but mostly enjoy the friendship. It's gotten me in trouble lately, as three women I am strictly friends with want to date. It kills me because I love spending time with each of them and hanging out, but I really don't want anything more. I've been in a relationship of some kind since I was 17 and I am exhausted of it.
Oh, a sensitive guy. I bet the chicks love that act and gets you laid. But it won't work here.
 

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Jeeze.... Ommy layin it down on everyone this morning...
 

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Well my workplace is a huge office that has like 500-700 people (I'm not sure about exact numbers) and the bars I go to are in a town of about 100,000 people.

I just don't trust people easily. I've been burned lots of times. Once bitten, twice shy.

It's sad because I compare the way I look at the world now with the way I looked at it 5 years ago and it's so different. I think I'm kind of mourning the loss of my innocence or something lol.


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Well don't become jaded by your past, not all men are the bad experiences you've had. In fact, you may lose out on some good opportunities if you treat them like that. I'm not saying you do now, it's just something to be cautious of.

There is nothing wrong with being picky, that's actually more attractive to many men. However, there is a difference between confident women with standards as opposed to women that think their vagina is the holy grail. Of course there is nothing wrong with the former, and the later is a sign of a woman with serious issues.

Don't be afraid to ask men out. That way you are picking out qualities that YOU like, rather than waiting for them to come to you.
 

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Well don't become jaded by your past, not all men are the bad experiences you've had. In fact, you may lose out on some good opportunities if you treat them like that. I'm not saying you do now, it's just something to be cautious of.

There is nothing wrong with being picky, that's actually more attractive to many men. However, there is a difference between confident women with standards as opposed to women that think their vagina is the holy grail. Of course there is nothing wrong with the former, and the later is a sign of a woman with serious issues.

Don't be afraid to ask men out. That way you are picking out qualities that YOU like, rather than waiting for them to come to you.

I lol'd again.... this thread is killing me :lol:
 

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Well don't become jaded by your past, not all men are the bad experiences you've had. In fact, you may lose out on some good opportunities if you treat them like that. I'm not saying you do now, it's just something to be cautious of.

There is nothing wrong with being picky, that's actually more attractive to many men. However, there is a difference between confident women with standards as opposed to women that think their vagina is the holy grail. Of course there is nothing wrong with the former, and the later is a sign of a woman with serious issues.

Don't be afraid to ask men out. That way you are picking out qualities that YOU like, rather than waiting for them to come to you.

One of my closest girl friends fits the "my vagina is the holy grail" category and it's exhausting. And as soon as she sees me flirting with a dude, she has to come over and start flirting with him. That doesn't really seem to help me out but since she's much easier than I am, it does help me weed out the douchebags who are just looking for a hole to bury their hog in for the night.


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it's safe to go outside now, I just walked around the block on a smoke break and kicked a couple of pigeons outside of the chase tower.

Thanks buddy.... I made a foray into Chase plaza and did not get assaulted by any flying rats
 

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One of my closest girl friends fits the "my vagina is the holy grail" category and it's exhausting. And as soon as she sees me flirting with a dude, she has to come over and start flirting with him. That doesn't really seem to help me out but since she's much easier than I am, it does help me weed out the douchebags who are just looking for a hole to bury their hog in for the night.


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Lol the "my vagina is the holy grail" girls are picky about looks.... they talk picky but then Doucheface McGee comes stumblin up with abs-o-steel and the "I totally lift Bro" arms and they revert to "well actually its like revolving door".

On a similar note, my brother-inlaw's brother is one of those average dudes who only looks at the prettiest girl in the room, no matter how cunty or fucktarded she is, all the dude looks at is the prettiest girl in the room who will never (and has never) given him a look... wtf is with dudes like that, I know a few others.... I don't get the mindset, you just kill your own chances essentially.
 

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Lol the "my vagina is the holy grail" girls are picky about looks.... they talk picky but then Doucheface McGee comes stumblin up with abs-o-steel and the "I totally lift Bro" arms and they revert to "well actually its like revolving door".

On a similar note, my brother-inlaw's brother is one of those average dudes who only looks at the prettiest girl in the room, no matter how cunty or fucktarded she is, all the dude looks at is the prettiest girl in the room who will never (and has never) given him a look... wtf is with dudes like that, I know a few others.... I don't get the mindset, you just kill your own chances essentially.

I don't know I used to do the same things at times, just to see if I could land them. There were quite a few occassions where I did. I consider myself average or slightly above in looks but I still landed hotties. I would approach women that other men wouldn't, even better looking guys. I simply didn't care what the women thought of me, you win some you lose some. Made me much more confident to approach the hot ones.
 

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Picking up women is piss easy, all you have to do is act like you're not interested in them.
 

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Picking up women is piss easy, all you have to do is act like you're not interested in them.

I think that tactic can work certainly, but I know for a fact it does not work 100% of the time lol
 

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No no no the best way to pick up a chick is to hang out a book store look super confused going through the shelves and hopefully a female will ask you what you are trying to find and you respond with

"yeah I can't find this self help book - I think it's called 'Being a Millionaire with a Huge Weener - Where to go From Here"

Its how I met my last 3 lawsuits
 

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Ares, i just saw a big fat lady step on a pigeon she didnt see because she was walking while dining on some flaming hots.
 

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Did you start this thread so people will hit on you?
 

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