Everything in this thread is a generalization--after all, there are non-cynical Gen-X'ers out there. Thankfully, I haven't had the displeasure of meeting them.
But I disagree with your complications of tech--one thing you may be missing is that there are parts of that tech that have, since the tech's introduction, become automated.
Do you remember when you had to futz around with a TV's vertical hold knob? What about futzing with the rabbit ears for a clear picture? Don't have to do it anymore.
I'm going way back, but have you ever tried to use a cat's whisker radio? Compare that with radios that will automatically tune themselves.
Do you remember when cruise control wasn't a thing? What about when automatic transmissions were bulky, expensive, and sucked through gas so bad that if you wanted to drive--you pretty much *had* to learn how to drive stick? Now we got cars that will automatically parallel park.
What about VCR's and futzing around with the tracking? Netflix & the like made that a ting of the past.
What about needed to know how to focus manually, set the exposure manually, and know something about photography in order to get a passable snapshot of your family vacation? Now you got cellphones with their computational cameras that will do everything for the aspiring photographer other than compose the image properly.
Hell, one can compare the ease of how to get a song you like *now*, vs. waiting for hours with your ghetto blaster paused while the record is on just to record a song off the radio.
A lot of that stuff took some learning to get to use it well--even if, in the case of the TV, it was your parents telling you to futz with the rabbit ears so *they* could watch TV. You got good at it out of necessity.
IMHO the same is today, and necessity and want (which I agree with you on) is the driving force of learning it in the 1st place--and IMHO a lot of learning that new tech for young people is that even though tech may streamline existing processes...it can also make the old way of doing things better and easier. Older people--comfortable in what they already know, tend to want to stick with what they know. Younger people, either coming from ignorance or looking for a better less traditional way tend to adopt, but in the end they get good at it because of necessity.
IMHO the more they change the more they stay the same. In the same vein I don't inherently hate millennials or Gen-Z'rs any more than I hate Baby Boomers or my fellow Gen-X'ers. I prefer to look at people at the individual level.
I disagree, and here's why.
What you describe is learning how to work with and then automate simple/mechanical processes.
There's nothing fundamentally complicated about turning a knob until you get what you want.
There's nothing fundamentally complicated about adjusting rabbit ear antenna until you get what you want.
There's nothing fundamentally complicated about driving a stick shift.
There's nothing fundamentally complicated about photography, though you dip into art vs science there.
And anything you bring up with regards to like finding a song you liked... that isn't really a technology difference, that is an information availability difference which has changed because of technology. I know what you mean, the technology makes things easier, but this is kinda off the path for the discussion we're having.
Using a computer is fundamentally more complicated than turning a knob on a TV or Radio until you get what you want.
Yes we've made strides in user friendliness, but at the same time the programming behind the scenes also got more complicated.
I can, if I choose, learn how to build and repair a car engine... it isn't something I know, but I could absolutely learn it if I decided to do so.
A mechanic, in many cases, is not intelligent enough to simply choose to learn how to write and maintain code for a full-stack application hosted in the cloud or on premise.
A person who owns a computer, in most cases is not intelligent enough to simply choose to learn enough about their PC to write and maintain code.... tinker with their Operating System.
I am comparing the early 20th century when "cutting edge" tech often was stuff you could figure out how to master and actually built/tinker with on your own, even without any special schooling or access to special resources.
Now cutting edge today would be AI hosted in the cloud that say is powering a self-driving car.... are you really saying that cutting edge is just as easy for Joe Schmoe to pickup and learn/maintain/tinker with?
There is a giant gap that has opened up between the user of tech and the tech.... I know people can use the tech, that has not changed, I get that.
But people and their understanding/relationship with the tech they own and use today, is not the same as it was even 20 years ago.
Can you crack open you smart phone and fix it? No
Can you crack open your laptop and fix it? No
Can you crack open the code of an OPEN SOURCE application and fix/maintain it? No, even when they give you the code.
Could the average owner of a VCR in the 1980s crack it open and fix/maintain it? Maybe, at least in some cases.
Could the average homeowner crack open and fix their home appliances in the 1960s/70s? Yes
Could the average car owner in the 1930s crack open their car and fix/maintain it? Yes
Could the average machine gunner in WWI crack open and fix/maintain their gun? Yes
Mechanical technology has always been far closer to the user than Information technology.
It really isn't the same, not to me at least.
It does still exhibit trends we've seen before, but I do think it is fundamentally different from cutting edge tech from even 20-30 years ago.
Hammers and screws are easier than Soldering irons and thermal paste are easier than Machine Language programming which (IMO) is easier than Object Oriented Programming or Database Programming, which is easier (IMO) than writing a full stack AI in the cloud.