Ok... that took a while, but I just went through the thread. It seems like a lot of new guys were interested in getting into the art of grilling several years ago. I'm curious if those guys are still doing it and how much progress they've achieved? I've been grilling for years and years and have been smoking on a BGE since the early part of 2012. I've learned plenty of tips and tricks along the way and have come to understand the reasoning behind a lot of different methods. Of course just like with everything else in this world, nothing is without controversy. (who would have it any other way? lol)
I'm currently out of the country so I can't even touch my babies for another few weeks. I am however planning several cooks when I get back to include some chipotle smoked salmon and pork chops on cedar planks, a better than sex smoked brisket, some blackened spatchcock chicken and of course some delicious ribeyes. A pork butt will probably end up in there somewhere as well, but I cook those so often that it's much lower on the list.
About 2 years ago I switched to a thicker stainless steel grill grate. The main reason is because my old porcelain enameled steel grid was on it's last legs. I went overboard and bought a grate that I would never have to replace. This baby has 3/8" thick rods and weighs about 14lbs. The benefits to this grate is heat retention, thicker and more even grill marks on BOTH sides your meat, easier clean up and zero issues with rust.
I use Royal Oak lump charcoal pretty much exclusively because it has a great price point (around $9 a bag) it's the same lump that is in the Big Green Egg bags (that goes for what $18 - $20 a bag?) it burns consistantly, lasts for a long time (26hrs at 235 for 1 full firebasket) and it puts a good flavor on meat. I cook my ribeyes at about 650 - 700 degrees depending on thickness. For med-rare, I cook a 1" thick Ribeye for 1min and 30 sec per side and then pull it. This gives it a very tiny band of what some would call "grey meat" and the rest is med-rare. My wife prefers her steaks ruined... er I mean well done, so her steak take around 6-7min total depending on the marbling. Normally I flip steaks about once a minute, (a recommendation by numerous professional chefs to create a good caramelizing on the outsides with out burning the seasonings) but since I only go 3 minutes total on my steaks, I look past the extra 30 seconds to maintain even cooking results. I do season my steaks with a little seasoning salt, a ton of fresh cracked pepper and a touch of cajun blackening seasoning. I don't neccessarily wait for my steaks to come up to room temperature (especially if they're thinner as I would prefer the inside to cook slower than the outside), but do season them before starting the grill. (It takes about 20min for me to clean, start and get my BGE up to 650) It's true the salt will draw out the moisture on a steak, but due to how fast I cook mine it's not a big deal... and my crazy wife prefers her dry so it's not an issue with hers either. I typically get very consistant results, however every now and again I get a piece of meat that is more dense or lean or both and it can affect the outcome if I maintain the exact timeframe. For those I adjust accordingly based on the poke and flex test.
Before I got my BGE, my grilling results were very inconsistent. I didn't understand the science behind it. But now that I have equipment that allows me to control most of the varibles, the results are light years better. Heck, I remember when I didn't know you're supposed to cook different animals at different temperatures. I always thought chicken breasts and porkchops were dry and that's just the way it is. Now both are just as juicy as a steak with minimal effort. Heck, I have to go out of my way to dry them out for the wife because she prefers drier meat. So that's a brief summary of my cooking background. Lemme know if you have any questions. I'm always open to trying different flavor combos and recipes.