I wanted to revive this thread instead of starting a new topic on guns. I almost shot a man in Tampa this past Saturday. It would have been hell on my conscience had it actually happened. Here is the story:
First, you need to know that when I put my car in park, the doors unlock automatically. I have no idea why the manufacturer thought this was a good feature. In any case, that's what it does.
So, I was driving to a concert in Tampa this past Saturday and stopped into Burger King's parking lot to use the wi-fi to check some things on my computer. I pull up into a space under the lights, and a couple spaces over from a truck. As I am reaching into my back seat to get my computer out of the case I see a guy walk up to my car and start to open my door. IMMEDIATE HEART POUNDING! I grab my gun from the console and yell "you have the wrong car buddy." He proceeds to put his leg down in the passenger floor and I tell him to "get the **** out of my car!". I have the pistol in my hand at this point, but it is still concealed by the sides of the console. The guy looks down and says "I thought you were my buddy, man" to which I reply "you have exactly one second to get the **** out of my car." The guy says "don't shoot me man, I'm just here looking for some girls" as he steps back out of the car. He is still standing there with my door open looking down into my car. I yell at him one last time "close my fucking door!" to which he finally does. He then goes over, uses his phone and gets back into his truck a couple spaces away and drives away. HEART STILL POUNDING!
1. I have been in some pretty bad neighborhoods all over this fine country of ours, but for whatever reason I always feel uneasy in Tampa and surrounding areas even though I grew up there.
2. If this was really someone trying to carjack me or worse, I don't know if I could have gotten my pistol quick enough. (It was as if this guy was in slow motion......or maybe that was just my mind slowing it down for me)
3. I don't know if the guy was drunk, or if he was just waiting for someone to pick him up and he wasn't sure what kind of car the guy drove.
4. Like I said, I don't know if my conscience would have allowed me to live a "normal" life after shooting someone based upon reaction/fear.
5. It may not be a crime to be a moron, but it sure could get you killed.
I guess I posted this to say that even though I am armed, and a self-professed "gun nut" who has a permit to carry, I still see other sides of arguments. I have been in 3 situations in my life now where I could have taken someone's life and been justified under the law, but careful thought and somewhat calm decision making prevented anyone from being shot. That is why I wouldn't ever want to encounter people with guns who have never had any training, and never practice for surprise situations. Part of responsible gun ownership in my opinion, as well as deciding to get a permit to carry means that you train, train, train for unexpected situations and that the majority of that training is keeping your eyes and ears open to your surroundings. This guy surprised me and this whole thing went down in a matter of 15 seconds at the most. I let my guard down and I shouldn't have.