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She sent me this

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In response to when I asked her "Sup? What are you doing tonight or this weekend if you aren't doing anything planned yet?"

I didn't get it until a couple of hours after i had made the first initial text to her and now I have literally zero clues what that is even supposed to mean to me?
 

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You are killing me man
 

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You are killing me man

Sorry about the thread title heading it kind of got away from me, was supposed to say "what kind of text is this?" Not "what a kind or"


But seriously I do not want to reply to her with something "lame."
 

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just send her that mirror pic. Chics dig mirror selfies
 
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just send her that mirror pic. Chics dig mirror selfies

I really have got to go to bed soon but I am literally paralyzed by confusion and do not want to seem like I am blowing this off right now and I see her tomorrow!
 

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I think she is probably getting shitfaced.
 
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She wants you dead? It is a ghost after all. But seriously, it feels like a playful thing to me, she would have ignored you if she didn't at least feel a little playful. I only take it as a positive.
 

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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ghosting

Ghosting
The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just "get the hint" and leave the subject alone, as opposed to the subject simply telling them he/she is no longer interested. Ghosting is not specific to a certain gender and is closely related to the subject's maturity and communication skills. Many attempt to justify ghosting as a way to cease dating the ghostee without hurting their feelings, but it in fact proves the subject is thinking more of themselves, as ghosting often creates more confusion for the ghostee than if the subject kindly stated how he/she feels.
 

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She wants you dead? It is a ghost after all. But seriously, it feels like a playful thing to me, she would have ignored you if she didn't at least feel a little playful. I only take it as a positive.

Hahaha no she is a really nice person and would never wish any bad thing upon anybody ever plus that ghost isn't scary at all to me at least. I ended up too nervous to type out a message that might not make any more sense than this ghost so I just went to bed after sending her this:

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I have yet to receive anything in response from her to this and am hopeful that it is because it was very late and not because it is coming off as too aggressive because of the "!" so I am just going to take the "wait and see approach" and hopefully while I wait for the time for her shift to start that I will be seeing her and we can actually talk face-to-face.
 
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Hahaha no she is a really nice person and would never wish any bad thing upon anybody ever plus that ghost isn't scary at all to me at least. I ended up too nervous to type out a message that might not make any more sense than this ghost so I just went to bed after sending her this:

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I have yet to receive anything in response from her to this and am hopeful that it is because it was very late and not because it is coming off as too aggressive because of the "!" so I am just going to take the "wait and see approach" and hopefully while I wait for the time for her shift to start that I will be seeing her and we can actually talk face-to-face.

Why didn't you just send her an emoji back instead of "!?"? To me sending that looks like you're looking for a meaning when it seems to me she was just being playful. No need looking into it further than that. But knowing she replied and didn't blow you off points to her being a good egg. Good luck.
 

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She sent me this

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In response to when I asked her "Sup? What are you doing tonight or this weekend if you aren't doing anything planned yet?"

I didn't get it until a couple of hours after i had made the first initial text to her and now I have literally zero clues what that is even supposed to mean to me?

Thanks for the dislike bozo
 
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Here are good occasions to use the ghost emoji: to show you’re listening; sheepishness; to elicit a faster response; to punctuate a rambling conversation; jumpy excitement; to show someone you’re thinking about them in a casual way

Possible meanings for the emoji.
 

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Have you tried murdering her?
 
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Ha! so you can write in sentences and paragaphs!!!!!
I knew it!!

Anyways, do what Favre did.
 

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