This is probably for the couch by my fury required a new thread.

[TSD]

The following is a post to my brothers facebook page after I had to threaten him over the phone not to attack my mom, merely 15 minutes ago, because if he did I was going to find him and strangle him with his own intestines.



I was having my weekly friday night call with my mom when he was on her porch when she went outside and threatened her. She basically defended herself by relaying what I said I would do to him on the phone if he touched her, and I was out the door ready to go there, when he left when he realized I wasnt fucking around.

 

[JOVE23]

What a dick. What was he saying to her? Would she be willing to take out a restraining order?

 

[Pez68]

I'm confused. You posted that to your brother? Sounds like a winner....

 

[bri]

If he is homeless will he even be able to read it? Does he even have a computer? He sounds kind of psycho so I would be careful. He might try to do something to you when your guard is down, like shoot you. I know this has to be really difficult for your mom, but I agree with whoever said you should talk her into getting a restraining order. Has he ever stole from family members to get money?

 

[bri]

Can't your mom have him committed to a mental health facility?

 

[TSD]

my brother somehow has money for a cell phone he posts to facebook with. And hes answered me since. Telling me to come meet at a park so we can have it out. I told him if i come, im coming with every advantage and im bringing a gun, and he backed off (I dont own a gun). A person has to submit to going to a mental facility if they arent fucking seriously completely rainman bananas. My brother would never do that.





Seriously i just want him dead, life would be 10 times easier if he would just kill himself and this is no instance of any hippy hes your brother afterall bullshit, hes a pile of shit and deserves death.

 

[TSD]

my mom just called me and said she called the police after my brother texted her "game over, your dead".

 

[bri]

my mom just called me and said she called the police after my brother texted her "game over, your dead".

He said that to your mom?

 

[TSD]

He said that to your mom?

while that may be surprising to you, yes, but it is not at all surprising to me.



Hes been carted off to county, but heres my whole thing, when is he actually going to act on what he says? I prefer not even to entertain the possibility and see him as a corpse. I am sick of it, it always comes to him threatening my mom and im stuck trying to figure out what to do 90% of the time, im tired of it.





She speaks her mind to him when she sees fit and im 30 miles away and then she calls me. That just sets him off, and I cant be there to protect her all the time. That takes its toll on me, when im talking to her while its going on or she calls me and says my brother has threatened to kill her. I cant do it anymore.



I mean were lucky the mere threat of me coming over there scares him off. What happens when that threat no longer scares him?

 

[sth]

Yeah it is hard with that stuff. My dad had a cousin who was really messed up and threatened people, including his mother. My dad and his brothers tried to stay away from him after a while. He was in some kind of fight with his wife one night and got stabbed and died. His wife wasn't charged with anything. I assume he was beating her.



I'm sure your tired of this shit. But you worry about your mom. I'm glad that you haven't had to physically stop him yet. So will they keep him in county lock up overnight?

 

[Bringmepie]

This is not smart.

 

[TSD]

This is not smart.

please enlighten me as to what I should do. I basically tell my mom to call the cops any time she comes in contact with him but she wont do it. I had generally been amicable to my brother until tonight, he flat out went to my moms house and threatened her while she was on the phone with me, the only thing I could do was threaten him back. i told him I was coming over and if he was there when I got there he wasnt getting out of it alive and apparently he immidiately booked, only to threaten her later and for him to tell me to meet him at a park as if I would actually go.

 

[bri]

I'm glad he is at least in jail for the night. Hope nobody is foolish enough to bail him out. You need to insist to your mom to have a restraining order issued against him for your own peace of mind. And your grandparents should get one too. None of them should have to deal with this lunacy.

 

[Kerfuffle]

This is scary. This sounds like a smoldering fire ready to ignite at any time. These are the stories we read in the paper after someone 'loses it' and goes on a postal spree. And then family and friends explain later (after the bodies are being picked up) that the guy was disturbed for many years. Have you tried the opposite approach? Try to calm him down rather than threaten him? It just seems like the threats may be enough to cause him to snap. And I would sleep with a gun under my pillow after he sees your facebook response.

 

[jakobeast]

Unfortunately, you have left a trail for the cops to charge you if anything does happen to him. However, I don't blame you at all if you did anything. I would hope the cops would understand as well.





























Either way, your "brother" calling down the thunder.

 

[bri]

Any updates on the situation, TSD?

 

[TSD]

my brothers a douchebag and back on the streets. Now more bullshit has boiled over from this I dont want to deal with. My fucking illegitimate biological fathers wife messaged me on facebook (my mom called his sister and I dont know how this happened, it came out of the blue I havent spoken to that asshat in 18 years).



She tells me how he wants to have counseling sessions with me and my brother and repair the relationship. She kept talking about jesus and God, and how "God" wants us to be a family. I responded to her with a profanity laced tirade.



I dont need nor want this shit, my brother is dead to me and so is the son of a ***** that spawned both of us.





She messaged me again about how, my "father" needs a chance to explain his side of the story, I didnt resort to cursing her out, I told her how it is, I lived that motherfuckers side of the story, I dont need to hear it.

 

[bri]

Wouldn't it have seemed more sincere, if Larry contacted you himself? Keep us posted. I'm sure you'll make the right decisions for you. I totally understand how you feel with things that have occurred in my extended family. Sometimes its just too late and nothing can repair the situation cause you have adjusted and lived with it so long, you just can't make yourself care anymore, especially if you are someone like myself that has severe trust issues. I sincerely hope the coming days will be less stressful for you.

 

[TSD]

Wouldn't it have seemed more sincere, if Larry contacted you himself? Keep us posted. I'm sure you'll make the right decisions for you. I totally understand how you feel with things that have occurred in my extended family. Sometimes its just too late and nothing can repair the situation cause you have adjusted and lived with it so long, you just can't make yourself care anymore, especially if you are someone like myself that has severe trust issues. I sincerely hope the coming days will be less stressful for you.

She asked for my number in her original reply to me so he could. I don't have anything to say to him, theres no point. I think he and his wife fail to understand there is no possibility of changing my mind, he burned that bridge himself, and I wont give him the satisfaction of being able to die with a clear conscience over his sins against his children. In my first message to her I told this broad if she believes in God her husband is going to burn in eternal hellfire for what hes done. I obviously dont believe that, but if she believes in that garbage I hope I struck a chord.

 

[sth]

It amazes me sometimes that people can be absolute assholes, and not even understand they are. This guy sounds like a total ******. Yeah he was the one that was so awful to you, you have the right to never see him again if you don't want. Something tells me you would make it maybe 5 minutes into the counciling session before you did some serious ass kicking.