Girlfriends birthday this sunday..wants to go to a winery at noon.

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She is only your GF not your wife.....dump her now, then try and get back with her when the playoffs begin.
 

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On the outside "im like sure whatever you want." But inside im like NOOOOOOOO!!!!! Outside of having the nfl sunday package is there a way to watch the game other tha nfl rewind which i believe makes you wait till tuesday to warch the games?
I'm not sure what the problem is. Your girlfriend wants to go to a winery during the Bears game. Sounds perfect, she gets drunk while you lay around in your underwear and watch the game.
 

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The white stuff better come out at least.
 

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Take her on another day.

The only time you need to celebrate your birthday on the actual day is your 1st birthday.

Other than that what does it matter if it is next weekend?

My wife and I celebrate our birthdays and anniversaries when it is convienient.
 

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I don't know where you live, but hopefully the weather is shit.

Or

Tell her you already had a plan for Sunday night and then fork out for a really nice dinner. It will cost you, but at least you can watch the game.
 

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Either way, take her to a winery... If you have a bad time and are regretting not watching the Bears the whole time, then that would suggest she's not in the long-term future. If you have a good time with her and can relax about the Bears, then she's got potential.
 

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Yeah... this is an easy decision.

Watch the game. Tell her you never miss a Bears game. Because that's the truth. You never miss a Bears game. Plus, you never miss a Bears game, so there's really no thought needed. Take her at 4. When there isn't a Bears game. This is a make-or-break decision for your life. If you cave, she will know she can dominate this time of yours. The time when you never miss a Bears game. And, she will do it, many, many, many more times. You must set a precedent. We are only here to help. You never miss a Bears game. Plus, she probably already cheated on you.
 

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On the outside "im like sure whatever you want." But inside im like NOOOOOOOO!!!!! Outside of having the nfl sunday package is there a way to watch the game other tha nfl rewind which i believe makes you wait till tuesday to warch the games?

D to Tha muthafucking V to tha muthafucking R, home skillet.
 

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Nfl game pass, will be available at 7pm, I work every other weekend for the last twenty years, gotta have priority s
 

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Tell her NO.

Take her on Saturday.

This isn't that difficult, you can tell a women no without the world ending.

This is what you do.

Women actually RESPECT YOU MORE when you take control and are not an indifferent little wuss that lets her do everything she wants. Women find that boring and if you do it enough, chances are she is going to be pounding another dude.
 

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Also, every girl I ever dated knew within a month that I was not missing a Bears game under almost any instance (wedding, funeral, etc being exceptions). Especially for something that can so easily be done on any other day.

Now if it is mid December and we are 3 and 11, then I might decide on my own not to watch all of the Bears game.
 

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Yeah... this is an easy decision.

Watch the game. Tell her you never miss a Bears game. Because that's the truth. You never miss a Bears game. Plus, you never miss a Bears game, so there's really no thought needed. Take her at 4. When there isn't a Bears game. This is a make-or-break decision for your life. If you cave, she will know she can dominate this time of yours. The time when you never miss a Bears game. And, she will do it, many, many, many more times. You must set a precedent. We are only here to help. You never miss a Bears game. Plus, she probably already cheated on you.

Straight savage.
 

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Also, every girl I ever dated knew within a month that I was not missing a Bears game under almost any instance (wedding, funeral, etc being exceptions). Especially for something that can so easily be done on any other day.

Now if it is mid December and we are 3 and 11, then I might decide on my own not to watch all of the Bears game.

Same... my wife knew from day one I don't miss a bears game and should not under any circumstance be interrupted when it's on.
 

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****. That.

Dude, there are 16 days a year where you can watch the Bears. 16 days out of 365, meaning she gets 349 days of the year to do whatever dumb shit she wants with you.

This isn't even about the Bears or the winery, this is much bigger than that. It's an issue of respect for your man-hood. When I started dating my ex, I confessed my love for the Bears pretty early on, and made it very clear that I've never missed a Bears game, even during the suckiest of seasons. That was in the summer, and she seemed cool with it, because every girlfriend seems cool as **** in the beginning of relationships. But then week one came around in the regular season, and I kid you not, she asked me to go to her girlfriend's baby shower with her. I don't even think men are supposed to be invited to those things, but she got pissed at me because I told her the Bears are playing.

Man up, stand your ground, and tell her you'll go with her any other time. The fact that she's picking to go to this winery during the three hours a week that you love most is extremely selfish of her.
 

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****. That.

Dude, there are 16 days a year where you can watch the Bears. 16 days out of 365, meaning she gets 349 days of the year to do whatever dumb shit she wants with you.

This isn't even about the Bears or the winery, this is much bigger than that. It's an issue of respect for your man-hood. When I started dating my ex, I confessed my love for the Bears pretty early on, and made it very clear that I've never missed a Bears game, even during the suckiest of seasons. That was in the summer, and she seemed cool with it, because every girlfriend seems cool as **** in the beginning of relationships. But then week one came around in the regular season, and I kid you not, she asked me to go to her girlfriend's baby shower with her. I don't even think men are supposed to be invited to those things, but she got pissed at me because I told her the Bears are playing.

Man up, stand your ground, and tell her you'll go with her any other time. The fact that she's picking to go to this winery during the three hours a week that you love most is extremely selfish of her.

WTF, men don't go to BABY SHOWERS!
 

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