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If your mom got fat...
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I will be married 23 years this October. I never had the unrealistic belief that my wife would look like she did at 25 and likewise she never had the unrealistic belief that I would be the same guy at that age. We both have aged, both have put on some weight.
My main concern for my wife, like myself, was that she remain healthy and active through her life. Her weight has fluxuated, she is probably around 140lbs now. At 5'4 that means she is about 20 lbs heavier than when we got married. I know I put on more than that in 23 years (I went from 180 to 220) but both of us are reasonably healthy.
Anyone that thinks that married women in general don't worry about their weight is an idiot. I have worked with women for 20 years and I have never heard one of them say, 'Glad I'm married now so I can let myself go.' Almost all of them worry about their weight. Most of the weight loss garbage sold these days is targeted at women in their 30s. If you go to the gym the vast majority of women there are in their late 20s to late 30s. Working, bearing children, trying to keep a house and all of the other things that women do has an effect on their bodies and anyone that thinks that a woman can keep herself looking like some of the tarts in these signature blocks at the same time is completely unrealistic.
I think some of the single guys here need to have a reality check. Few people at 40 look like they did at 20; both male and female. A guy that screws around on his wife because she has put on some weight after having three kids is a douchebag. He can try to make himself feel better by blaming his wife for letting herself go but he is a selfish prick just the same.
My main concern for my wife, like myself, was that she remain healthy and active through her life. Her weight has fluxuated, she is probably around 140lbs now. At 5'4 that means she is about 20 lbs heavier than when we got married. I know I put on more than that in 23 years (I went from 180 to 220) but both of us are reasonably healthy.
Anyone that thinks that married women in general don't worry about their weight is an idiot. I have worked with women for 20 years and I have never heard one of them say, 'Glad I'm married now so I can let myself go.' Almost all of them worry about their weight. Most of the weight loss garbage sold these days is targeted at women in their 30s. If you go to the gym the vast majority of women there are in their late 20s to late 30s. Working, bearing children, trying to keep a house and all of the other things that women do has an effect on their bodies and anyone that thinks that a woman can keep herself looking like some of the tarts in these signature blocks at the same time is completely unrealistic.
I think some of the single guys here need to have a reality check. Few people at 40 look like they did at 20; both male and female. A guy that screws around on his wife because she has put on some weight after having three kids is a douchebag. He can try to make himself feel better by blaming his wife for letting herself go but he is a selfish prick just the same.
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The truth shall set you free. You are at least honest even though you can't admit how stupid you sounded.
P.S. Those 5 women you talked to that said disgusting......did not really say that. You are lying.....even though I wasn't there and I talk out my ass. - Run the Ball
Classic shit bro. Thanks :facepalm2::cubspalm:
sorry...ran out of facepalms
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Come to southern California and then tell me that all of these hot women over 40 that are married and have kids don't look the same as when they were younger....or even better. Only an idiot would say such a biased and flawed statement but you explained that. And some women just don't care anymore. Nobody said that women in general don't care about their weight. Some women care enough and are disciplined enough to keep themselves healthy and fit...and they are down to earth as well. I really appreciate those that do.
Anyways who cares...this thread has turned into a mother thread lol
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Wow, calling someone who accepts the fact that people change as they age an idiot. You win the Summer's Eve Douchebag of the year award.
And sure, you can look like that if you ditch the kids, marry some rich **** that can support you while you spend four hours a day in the gym in between visits to the plastic surgeon. So yeah I am pretty fucking sure anyone can look like that, well, anyone with enough money, at least until they start to look like Phyllis Diller. Try scraping off some of that plaster that these women slather themselves with and you will find that not all of them look as 'hot' as you think.
Jesus effin Christ, Southern California? Now I understand your mentality. That entire shallow, self centered existance you seem to advocate as 'ideal' is the explanation as to why your buddies would bang other women rather than concentrate on creating a stable long term relationships with someone they supposedly love. Do us all a favor and never marry, morons like you give the institution of marriage a bad name. Then again, go ahead, I can't wait for some broad to dump your ass when you start to develop that little spare tire around the middle.
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Lived together for 2 years and married for 33. It keeps getting better. I am very lucky to have her.
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Could have sworn someone said something about others being idiots first. I think it was you bro. Talk.about douchebag. Funny stuff.
What a moron you are to say that women would have to ditch their and work out four hours a day and marry a rich guy! That is the dumbest thing I have heard. How could you say that. What a dick you are. Plenty of women here are down to earth beach women who work out a few times a day for just an hour, still have their kids, and are happily married middle class couples. Your generalization is really sad and obviously you have not been to Southern California. People live a healthier lifestyle in general here and you are really talking out your ass. Pretty sad.
People like you are bitter, lazy, and come off as a generalizing dick to others who put in the time to be fit. Being fit doesn't mean shallow...maybe a defensive person like yourself who says such idiotic statements is unhappily married and makes excuses like you can't work out for 4 hours a day, not getting plastic surgery (because according to you that is the only way to be hot along with ditching your kids (what a joke of a statement)....lol...to make yourself feel better should never come out here because people who make excuses and are unhealthy would probably not make it out here.
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The argument? The thread was a question.. if your wife got fat, what would you do? It's an opinion thread. There is no right/wrong answer dumbass.
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All she has to do is stay away from the donuts for breakfast and the burgers for lunches. I see all these 30+ year old women on the train in the morning scarffing down Dunkin Donuts. It's obvious why they're putting on the weight. How about you replace that donut with a damn banana.
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Jim you are a dick. Before you start my wife is still under 125.
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It was changed Malcore, lol
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Was the title of this thread changed from If your wife got fat to If your mom got fat?
This board protects wives but throws mothers under the bus?
This board protects wives but throws mothers under the bus?
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Reeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaachiiiiiiiiiiiing!The truth shall set you free. You are at least honest even though you can't admit how stupid you sounded.
P.S. Those 5 women you talked to that said disgusting......did not really say that. You are lying.....even though I wasn't there and I talk out my ass. - Run the Ball
Classic shit bro. Thanks :facepalm2::cubspalm:
And yes, 5 women in my office think that what you wrote is downright disgusting, it actually turned into a water cooler conversation afterwards. It seems like you and your friends live on a small secluded island(not even my own words).
I'll throw you a bone though, do you currently have a partner? If so, you should tell her that you're going to dump her ass if she gains weight, then come back tell us how it went, thanks.
PS - if there was any confusion as to why you're the current holder of the worst poster on CCS, this thread clears all that up.
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You clearly don't visit the Cubs Forum
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Yup some dick changed it. Correct title still shows on my first post.
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You're correct, I don't, but Guap won the official award.
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I dunno RTB, maybe 3 women and a coffee machine conversation is believable, but 5 and a water cooler? Seems a stretch.