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Yeah I'll go with that. Growing up in my neighborhood on a nice summer evening. EVERY SINGLE kid on the street was outside playing. Some of the parents were on their porches talking but all the kids were outside playing. I never see kids outside playing anymore and I live in Florida for fucksake where the weather is pretty nice most of the year. So yeah I can go along with kids arent able to be kids anymore</p>
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I do see kids playing around my neighborhood, which is good-there's some spark of hope against parents who are overly neurotic and don't want to let their kids out of their sight, protection, and won't teach them autonomy until they are 18.</p>
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In my case though, I do know there are issue with just "kids playing outside". As a kid, the neighborhood we lived in was good, and had a vew forests/ravines to explore (a necessary childhood activity, by the way), but I literally had no kids my age living anywehre near me--unlike my bro and stepsiblings. As such, If I went outside to play, I played alone. As a consequence of playing alone, I would either be doing mischeivous stuff (one can only ride their bike around the block so many times), going beyond the limits of where I was allowed to go, or building stuff like bike ramps and doing "dangerous" stuff (like climbing a goddamned tree!!!!)--all of which got me in trouble. Not to mention the fact that I was more often than not grounded for some reason (hell, some of them even valid reasons). </p>
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But really, in my case I was urged to go and play outside, but I had no one to play with, so it would mean making my own fun, which was more often than not--against the rules. So, as a parent, if you're trying to chase your kid outside--work with them on it. They'll want to come back inside if everything they try to do for amusement (like tie a giant rubber band between two fir trees to make a giant slingshot for launching pinecones) you won't let them do and there's no one for them to play with.</p>