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Ignoring Idiots
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The Jordan rules - Google Books
About 4 paragraphs down, you'll read an excerpt from the Jordan rules about all the kids w/ terminal ailments that Jordan met from "Make a Wish Foundation". One of my good friends caddied for him around this time, and he said he was a fantastic guy. Does he sit around campfires with fans singing kumbaya every weekend? No. Is he as good a guy as David Robinson or Drew Breese? No, and few are. He's a complex individual, and like many of us, good and times and bad at times. But to portray him as some sort of rampaging prick is wrong. And considering all that he's done for the city, efforts to portray him as such are quite pathetic.
I specifically asked Bill Wennington if he liked playing with him, and he said he never had a problem with Michael, and that Michael was a good teammate. He demanded effort from his teammates and excellence. Has this society evolved into such a pile of wuss that these are now the qualities of a raging asshole?
The guy brought nothing but joy to my life. Why tear him down for speaking his mind? He should speak his mind. He's the best that ever was. Kobe's not even close, and I can understand why he should feel insulted by the media's effort to make this a conversation topic. He helped remake the image of this city, once often associated with losers and Al Capone. Now, you mention Chicago, and it's Michael, Orprah or Barack.
Kobe is a top 10 player in NBA history...top 10 amongst guards? That is unfairly boxing in a great player to a specific category. Kobe is bigger than that. Do I think Jordan's bothered by comparisons to Kobe? Maybe so...that's his problem. The comparisons will be there...
I doubt that Jordan would have done similar to Magic, or Bird or any of the greats that came before him or played during his time..."Magic Johnson would definitely be on the list of greatest point guards..." Gee, you think? Kobe, I believe is the second greatest shooting guard ever...and Jordan knows it. Jordan also knows that presently Lebron is a better player than Kobe, but he won't admit it.
I knock his hall of fame speech...I knock him for some of his statements towards today's stars like Lebron and Kobe...that is not defaming his legacy, that is telling the truth.
I am 35 years old! I don't feel like celebrating someone as a great human being because they can jump high or run fast...I acknowledge his athleticism and his achievements...he was a great player, the greatest player. My problem is with the image portrayed for years comparable to reality.
He brought joy on the basketball court to me also. But as a person victimized by bullying...reading Jordan Rules really opened my eyes to him. Most likely he and I would not have gotten along, because I hate bullying...period. I know what it does to people, children and adults and I don't like it.
Fred, you bring up his father being murdered and his best friend's murder as excuses...you are seriously reaching. I was a victim of abuse...If I am an asshole because of it, maybe I should seek help. In the meantime, those victimized by the behavior I exhibit in a negative way should be allowed to feel that I am an asshole, and not necessarily need a psychological paradigm at their disposal to excuse it. Do you know how much I hear that b.s.? "He killed his whole family because he grew up poor and can't find a job...." give me a damn break.
What athletes don't visit sick kids....who says "f--- them cancerous bastards!" Of course he visits kids. Doesn't mean he wasn't a bad guy towards teammates and even Bulls execs. I have heard good and bad things about him from people who know him, which makes him human.
I wish he could have worked as hard at being a great human being as he did a great player...then maybe he could be compared to David Robinson, Olajuwon...people like that. Mickey Mantle, sick and near death spoke of how he was NOT a role model...his drinking and partying ways had caught up to him and was cutting his life short. He, when healthy, may have been the greatest baseball player ever, an international superstar, looking back on his life, said he wasn't a great role model...yet his teammates loved him. Many of Jordan's teammates respected him, but despised him. As he ages, I believe one of his regrets will be the unnecessarily bad treatment he gave to those who were close to him when the lights and the cameras were not on. Maybe he won't, but I know how I feel in reaction to knowledge of it. His HOF speech was really the first time Jordan Rules was in action. The first time I saw him when he was at his lowest. It makes a big difference in reading about it and seeing it first hand...
rather than excusing him for his actions or saying goof ball b.s. like "he deserves to say what he wants because he's the greatest...", I say that his position in the sport warrants better behavior. I shouldn't adjust my moral beliefs to suit Jordan's fame and fortune. I hold him to the same standards I hold any other....ANY other athlete to. I have NOT heard the bad things about Lebron or Wade for example that I have heard about Jordan....but, people have no problem cutting them down because "those bastards cost us a dynasty", and don't believe for a second that Jordan's criticism of Lebron wasn't self serving. That group in Miami will forcibly push the Bobcats into basketball purgatory for the next decade.
I have given Jordan his props, yet I have no problem pointing out his flaws also. When I was a boy, I idolized him, now I am a man...and citing near flawless athleticism while ignoring flawed character, and using that as the measure of a man, is not worth my time. I offer no apologies for it...