Ummm...where the **** is she getting accepted to, nothing but Ivy League schools? I mean, in-state tuition for public universities can be expensive but not ridiculous. And there are a lot more ways to get funding than most people realize:
Grants: As far as I can tell, everyone is eligible for Federal Pell grants. I can't recall exactly since it's been a while, but I'm pretty sure they give out 4K a year or so. You apply for these when going through student aid filing. There are also various other grants given out under specific requirements (age, drug addiction recovery [yeah...seriously], and tons of other things).
Scholarships: People seem to think that these either don't exist or simply fall out of trees into the laps of the recipients; they don't, you actually have to do leg work. She should talk to A) the head of her department; B) the dean of whatever school she majors at (not the dean of students, but he dean of the School of Music, or dean of the School of Political Science [for example]); and C) look up organizations that have a vested interest in her major and whether or not any of them may offer some sort of scholarships.
Working for the university in some function (tutor, book store, cafeteria, whatever) also provides partial tuition waivers.
Basically, I ended up spending about 8K out of pocket/in loans for my undergrad tuition; and obviously a bunch more for books and such (that's where they really rape you). I'm well aware that this isn't the norm by any means, but good decision making helps a lot in this process. Went to a state university, worked full time out of high school and got an "adult education" grant when I decided to go back to school, received two scholarships through an endowment for my primary subject (head of the department found those for me) and an additional one from an outside organization because I also studied something (other than my primary subject) that is largely dying out. Like I said, this is by no means typical, but there are many ways you can reduce costs if you spend the time searching for them.