Daughter has the highest level of peanut allergy. Glad to find it.
You have my sympathies on this--I've got anaphlyaxis to tree nuts and poppy seeds (strangely enough, not peanuts).
One of my daughters has a peanut allergy. You should ALWAYS carry an "Epipen" just in case something happens. Better to be safe than sorry. And now whenever you eat out, you have to be sure to tell the server about your daughter's allergy because you never know what ingredients they put in the food.
Yes. But depending on the severity it might have to go even more than just the ingredients. A common food prep surface that isn't properly cleaned may be enough to set off a reaction.
So somewhere around 3 she tries some and doesn't like them. But her older sister does. so every six to twelve months she tries them. Hates them every time. Even the smell.
SO my oldest gets sick and hits the school nurses office. Somewhere in the conversation she mentions her sister not liking peanuts and that her tongue gets itchy. The nurse has no peanut allergy on file and calls us immediately. We say, she doesn't have an allergy, just doesn't like them but wants to like them.
That night at the dinner table the itchy tongue comes out which neither my wife or I knew about it. So as my young one is sick we assk for a peanut allergy test. Bingo, highest allergic reaction on the scale.
Praise God she never got severely ill.
EDIT: We just found out and my baby is 8.5 years old. Some parents.
Okay, you have no right to say you're a bad parent in this regard.
I remember having recations from tree nuts and poppy seeds that, in retrospect, I've known about since I was 4 years old (just didn't know it was an actual allergy until I was about 8) that have gotten progressively worse and worse over time.
My (late) mom had an allergy to coconut. You'd think it would be an indicator to adults that are at least partially educated.
I would always shun anything with nuts or poppy seeds as a kid--they would make my mouth itch with a metallic taste, make me itch, vomit, etc. and my dad/stepmother would disregard it as me being "a fussy eater". Even with the sweet tooth I have/had, and flat out refusing things like german chocolate cake they couldn't put 2 and 2 together and come up with an answer less than. 100.
When I learned what a food allergy was when I was around 8 by reading (yes, I was that nerdy kid) and I told my dad/stepmom, they would belittle the point by telling me, "I
think I'm allergic." As oppiosed to *actually* taking me to get checked, ya know?
Even after they got divorced, my dad never took it seriously, even when I came lethally close to anaphylactic shock when I was 14. If fact, it took me as a senior in highschool tearing him a new asshole and embarrassing him in front of his g/f at the time to finally take it seriously.
So yeah, it may have took you 8.5 years to catch it, but my gut tells me you're going to actually do something about it rather than pretend like to doesn't exist. You actually took her into get tested. Chances are you're going to get her an epi-pen. You're going to help police her food. That's not being a bad parent. Don't be hard on yourself.