I think some should read what an actual *** former NBA player has to say about this issue. I find it interesting, and sad by the way, that people say they are not homophobic yet bring up certain stereotypes during this argument, which can, and should be interpreted as homophobic...that is absolutely sickening.
That said
Here is an interview with John Amaechi about the subject
Q: Do you think the remark makes Bryant homophobic?
A: The reason it's difficult is because of how influential he is. When he talks, not just young people but sports fans in general listen. They mimic. He sets a tone that says, "This is acceptable language when you are frustrated." It isn't acceptable language. That's the larger extent of the damage. That's like a Glenn Beck non-apology. With a few more words well-chosen he could do some good.
I don't think he is any more homophobic than the average person, or most certainly your average person in sports. When you're in the spotlight, when a camera is trained on your face on a daily basis, you don't have the luxury of losing control. When you do, I like to see people be a little more contrite than that.
*** ex-NBA player Amaechi weighs in on Bryant, 'apology' for slur - USATODAY.com