Does anyone else think their expectations for females are just too high?

[Bukkake]

I think you need to drop the whole "I don't want a girl who drinks" thing.

It's been my experience that women will only have sex with men if they're really, really drunk.

I don't believe I said I want a girl who doesn't drink. I just don't want a crazy social drinker.

For example, what I would want in a girl is someone who doesn't drink or barely drinks

 

[Nail Polish]

You said, "Society as a whole has regressed as far as morals."

"Society as a whole has regressed."

"Society as a whole."

Correct...Society as a whole regarding the situation he described..Which was DATING!

 

[Decatur Staley]

It appears that the girl I am looking for is either a church girl or someone who was in high school in the 90s or maybe early 2000s. /facepalm.

I'm only 19 by the way which is why I facepalm at this.

Holy shit... 19 years old? You don't even know what you want yet.... Just talk to people and have fun... The right girl will fall in your lap.

 

[Decatur Staley]

I think you need to drop the whole "I don't want a girl who drinks" thing.

It's been my experience that women will only have sex with men if they're really, really drunk.

LOL.. You're pathetic.

 

[Bukkake]

Holy shit... 19 years old? You don't even know what you want yet.... Just talk to people and have fun... The right girl will fall in your lap.

I just listed what I wanted, it's generic, but it's what I want and it seems unobtainable tbh.

 

[WCL]

Correct...Society as a whole regarding the situation he described..Which was DATING!

So when you said "Society as a whole has regressed as far as morals, and women are no different," you were saying that society has regressed in terms of dating and that includes the attitudes of women about dating?

That seems odd. If you're saying the morals of dating have regressed, I don't think you need to point out that it includes women. That would be understood.

No, when you said "society as a whole," you were making a comment about "society as a whole." Don't try to backtrack and pretend you were only talking exclusively about dating.

 

[bbaker]

You described my wife to a tee. She never drinks, never swears, has no tatts or piercings (beyond the normal earlobe type) and she leads groups of people every day.

My best advice to you.......... look for a kindergarten teacher.

Ahh yes, Kindergarten teachers. I know some future kindergarten teachers (or that's what they plan on being) & they would get a ring from me if we were older. I'm only 21 though & have no interest in getting married anytime soon :lol: .

OP, you're only 19 yrs old. Right now the chicks you know are still maturing/going through their party-college phase. You still have plenty of time. Shit, I'm only 21 and girls are totally different now than when I knew them at 19.

 

[X]

You described my wife to a tee. She never drinks, never swears, has no tatts or piercings (beyond the normal earlobe type) and she leads groups of people every day.

My best advice to you.......... look for a kindergarten teacher.

This. it's my story, too. and, my wife IS a kindergarten teacher...and she's smokin' hot. ha!

 

[WCL]

I don't believe I said I want a girl who doesn't drink. I just don't want a crazy social drinker.

So, you're looking for a decent-looking nice girl who drinks occasionally?

Yeah, you'll never be able to find someone like that.

I would just give up.

 

[BNB]

I'm starting to think so myself. I've been on dating websites recently and I realized that my expectations for these girls are just almost completely unattainable.

For example, what I would want in a girl is someone who doesn't drink or barely drinks, stays away from drugs/smoking completely, I wouldn't want her to have tattoos, stupid piercings like cartilage, monroe, etc. . and I also would want a girl that is more of a leader than a follower, someone who is nice to pretty much everyone, not just to myself. Then I would obviously like her to look decent.

It seems like this girl that I want is pretty much unattainable. Does anyone else have this problem or had this problem?

I wouldn't say that you have high expectations. I know several girls that match that description.

I think high expectations would be wanting a girl with a perfect ass, perfect tits, pretty face, great body in general, a great cook, someone who you can bring home to mom, someone who fucks like a pornstar, likes sports, doesn't talk TOO much, doesn't smoke/use drugs/etc [if that's what you prefer] has a great sense of humor, etc.

Now those expectations would be too high.

 

[onebud34]

I'm starting to think so myself. I've been on dating websites recently and I realized that my expectations for these girls are just almost completely unattainable.

For example, what I would want in a girl is someone who doesn't drink or barely drinks, stays away from drugs/smoking completely, I wouldn't want her to have tattoos, stupid piercings like cartilage, monroe, etc. . and I also would want a girl that is more of a leader than a follower, someone who is nice to pretty much everyone, not just to myself. Then I would obviously like her to look decent.

It seems like this girl that I want is pretty much unattainable. Does anyone else have this problem or had this problem?

My advice is...find a girl who fits the opposite of these needs. Piercings...tattoos...drinks like a fish...does some blow. But still looks good. Fuck the shit out of her for 3 or 4 weeks and see if you like it. If you don't...you can always go back to this criteria and say at least you got it out of your system. If you do...just try not to get hooked on the blow or her vag.

 

[onebud34]

I think high expectations would be wanting a girl with a perfect ass, perfect tits, pretty face, great body in general, a great cook, someone who you can bring home to mom, someone who fucks like a pornstar, likes sports, doesn't talk TOO much, doesn't smoke/use drugs/etc [if that's what you prefer] has a great sense of humor, etc.

Those are what we call lesbians

 

[Bukkake]

OP, you're only 19 yrs old. Right now the chicks you know are still maturing/going through their party-college phase. You still have plenty of time. Shit, I'm only 21 and girls are totally different now than when I knew them at 19.

O rly?

My advice is...find a girl who fits the opposite of these needs. Piercings...tattoos...drinks like a fish...does some blow. But still looks good. Fuck the shit out of her for 3 or 4 weeks and see if you like it. If you don't...you can always go back to this criteria and say at least you got it out of your system. If you do...just try not to get hooked on the blow or her vag.

Yea......I'd rather continue what I'm doing and jack it to brazzers instead, thanks.

 

[onebud34]

Yea......I'd rather continue what I'm doing and jack it to brazzers instead, thanks.

Pretty much all those girl either drink or do drugs:tiptoe:

 

[Uman85]

Your expectations for women are just too damn high.

 

[Stangboy124]

I'm starting to think so myself. I've been on dating websites recently and I realized that my expectations for these girls are just almost completely unattainable.

For example, what I would want in a girl is someone who doesn't drink or barely drinks, stays away from drugs/smoking completely, I wouldn't want her to have tattoos, stupid piercings like cartilage, monroe, etc. . and I also would want a girl that is more of a leader than a follower, someone who is nice to pretty much everyone, not just to myself. Then I would obviously like her to look decent.

It seems like this girl that I want is pretty much unattainable. Does anyone else have this problem or had this problem?

The problem is not that a girl like this is unattainable. The problem is that a girl like this isn't gonna be on some fuckin' dating website.

 

[Nail Polish]

So when you said "Society as a whole has regressed as far as morals, and women are no different," you were saying that society has regressed in terms of dating and that includes the attitudes of women about dating?

That seems odd. If you're saying the morals of dating have regressed, I don't think you need to point out that it includes women. That would be understood.

No, when you said "society as a whole," you were making a comment about "society as a whole." Don't try to backtrack and pretend you were only talking exclusively about dating.

How anyone with a lick of common sense could take a statement made about dating and use it for race relations is beyond me,but Im not gonna argue with you any longer...

YOURE RIGHT..(rolls eyes)

 

[cubsneedmiracle]

Here's my advice.. Most chicks that are 18-21 don't know what the fuck they are doing.. or know what the fuck they want (well sometimes they do )

Just go do your own shit. Don't worry about dating sites.. They'll net you next to nothing anyways.

When you all are a bit older the women will start to figure out everything isn't Sex in the City or any random Disney movie. Life isn't a fairytale (except for maybe 1% of us)

 

[Sunbiz1]

Thought 4/the day.

Men and women both need until about age 30 to become the people they truly are, which is a main reason couples who marry young eventually grow apart.

 

[JosMin]

*sigh*