GF/Wife says to Sleep on the couch

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Married one week already huh, congrats. I've been married a little longer, we love each other, which is why we can tell the other person to do things, like put the toilet seat down, or stay away from my grill, that's mine. You have a lot to learn, good luck.

12 years in a few months.

I'm the one that has a lot to learn. That's rich.
 

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Is she a reasonable person acting reasonably? Did you **** up and you deserve it, take your medicine and stop fucking up.

Is she fucked in the head and just lashing out for no good reason? Sleep on the couch then start making plans to get away from her first thing in the morning.

She wants to go to Milwaukee to help her sister move, I said I don't plan on going. lol

That is not a couchable offense, withholding of sex for 2 nights tops. You didn't **** up, so think about option2.
 

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wife tried that once I stayed out a bit late and came in a bit hammered and she had me a bed made on the couch I just hopped in our bed and said looks like u made yerself a comfy spot out there and went to sleep. if u tolerate that kinda thing yer woman will run over you. what you need to do is establish the fact yer her man not her *****.

if you don't have fun being hen pecked and destroyed women don't respect a man who doesn't let them know hes a man
 

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tell her that is not productive. you are both sleeping in the bed and youll discuss it in the morning when cooler heads prevail
 

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"You think I can move furniture with a stiff neck and twisted back from sleeping on the couch?"
Next time she has a *headache*, throw that one back at her.
 

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36th anniversary today, get back to be at 25 newb.

43 and counting. be happy she told you to sleep on the couch. Can't hear her whining and bitching from the other room.

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I think we need more context. Did you originally commit to helping her sister move or did she just assume you would go? Do you already have plans this weekend or are you just going to be a bum?
 

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wife tried that once I stayed out a bit late and came in a bit hammered and she had me a bed made on the couch I just hopped in our bed and said looks like u made yerself a comfy spot out there and went to sleep. if u tolerate that kinda thing yer woman will run over you. what you need to do is establish the fact yer her man not her *****.

if you don't have fun being hen pecked and destroyed women don't respect a man who doesn't let them know hes a man

There are other much more entertaining ways to show her you are a man. I don't know any women that would go for that 'me Trazan you Jane' shit, I do know some single guys that tried it. But hey, whatever works for you guys, there is no one right way of staying happily married, you've found something that your wife buys into, congrats.
 
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There are other much more entertaining ways to show her you are a man. I don't know any women that would go for that 'me Trazan you Jane' shit, I do know some single guys that tried it. But hey, whatever works for you guys, there is no one right way of staying happily married, you've found something that your wife buys into, congrats.

been happily married for so long I cant remember even how to be single tbh. but I know this much if you let your woman take complete control and treat you like a pleb then she will and in turn will lose respect for you and it will get worse.

so many dudes ive seen in my life who complain and ***** about how their woman treats them the couch shit no getting laid being talked down too. a lot of that stems from a man not acting like a man and standing up to them. whether u believe it or not what I'm saying true. whether women are willing to admit it or not they prefer their man to stand up to them not act like a weak biatch. that doesn't mean club the ***** on the head and take some ass but if you don't assert yourself they lose respect for you and think your weak next thing you know they aren't as attracted to you ect ect ect its the way it is
 

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Been married to the best lady I ever met going on 19 years.
Was my close friend for 6 years prior to that.
I can't remember an argument, let alone going to bed mad.
She is so very good to me that I would swallow four tons of pride for her.
The great thing is she would never ask me too.
 

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Been married to the best lady I ever met going on 19 years.
Was my close friend for 6 years prior to that.
I can't remember an argument, let alone going to bed mad.
She is so very good to me that I would swallow four tons of pride for her.
The great thing is she would never ask me too.

I'm in that group of never argue, and I still have most of the house. :)
 

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