I didn't read the whole thread, but one of the best suggestions i've heard through the years is to keep a journal of everything you consume. Exercise is obviously #1 but force yourself to be conscience of the calories you are eating, set a daily goal and try to stick to it. Write down everything, not after not a summary, everything, when you have it and in as much detail as possible. The funny thing is that one of the things they found was that some people who committed to doing this, found that they were eating so much that it got to be a hassle to write everything down all the time, so they stopped eating as much because they didn't want to take the time to write it down. I would suggest figure out your target calories, write everythign down, and do as much exercising as possible. And when I say the last part I mean, try to work it into your everyday life since so many of us can't find the time. Walk the long way, clean the house better, things like that. Stuff you are already doing turn them into exercise.