How to get rid of a creeper

JLeigh34

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fuckin can't stand women that are incapable of expressing themselves clearly, with words, in a non-confrontational manner.

See, here's the thing about that. That's actually how I operate. A lot of men say they want that but really can't handle it. Then you end up being labeled as the crazy ***** or the chick who wants too much too fast or the girl who is a stuck up c-word.

It's a hard line to walk. Some guys can handle that kind of transparency while others flip the F out.


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See, here's the thing about that. That's actually how I operate. A lot of men say they want that but really can't handle it. Then you end up being labeled as the crazy ***** or the chick who wants too much too fast or the girl who is a stuck up c-word.

It's a hard line to walk. Some guys can handle that kind of transparency while others flip the F out.


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holy fuckk you and my girlfriend would get along great.
 

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give his wife a call. that should straighten him right out.
 

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Jayjay, have you tried disliking him?

Also u could email him the url to this thread?

Maybe tell him that i married you to ares months ago?

Sorry thats all i got for now, i only read your op and the first couple responses. It sickens me we have this many pages and no resolution.
 

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So I believe I have solved the problem :) he kept bugging me so I decided to try just putting a sign on my desk (as they usually have us do to show if we're on break, at lunch, on a project, very busy, etc) and I put one that said "if my headphones are in, please do not disturb".

I expected it would be an easy way out and that the dude would just leave me alone but it did not work and he pestered me to take off my headphones and asked if that sign was about him and this other dude he goes on smoke breaks with, who is actually a good work friend of mine. I told him he was half right and that I don't mind the other guy at all because I enjoy having appropriate, professional conversations with him. He looked a bit confused at first but has left me alone since :)

He still goes out of his way to walk by my desk and sadly glare at me but I've just been ignoring that and enjoying the silence :)

Thank you guys for all of the advice! Now that I've planted that seed of "you are inappropriate and unprofessional", it'll be much easier for me to tell him to F off if he starts coming at me again.


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So I believe I have solved the problem :) he kept bugging me so I decided to try just putting a sign on my desk (as they usually have us do to show if we're on break, at lunch, on a project, very busy, etc) and I put one that said "if my headphones are in, please do not disturb".

I expected it would be an easy way out and that the dude would just leave me alone but it did not work and he pestered me to take off my headphones and asked if that sign was about him and this other dude he goes on smoke breaks with, who is actually a good work friend of mine. I told him he was half right and that I don't mind the other guy at all because I enjoy having appropriate, professional conversations with him. He looked a bit confused at first but has left me alone since :)

He still goes out of his way to walk by my desk and sadly glare at me but I've just been ignoring that and enjoying the silence :)

Thank you guys for all of the advice! Now that I've planted that seed of "you are inappropriate and unprofessional", it'll be much easier for me to tell him to F off if he starts coming at me again.


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He is going to start to ignore you then you are going to want to have relations with him! Effing Women?

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He probably has this convo with your fellow co workers

[video=youtube;b1W5vwhLcsw]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1W5vwhLcsw[/video]
 

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This might scare him away.

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When I was in High School we use to have a chant we would chant to other players.

Lets just say the chant involved Dirty Sanchez and Rusty Trombone.
 

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Be a total *****. It's the only thing that makes them stop. Seriously. Maybe even throw an "ugh" and a look of disgust in there too.
 

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Be a total *****. It's the only thing that makes them stop. Seriously. Maybe even throw an "ugh" and a look of disgust in there too.

I'd tried that but he just thought it was "cute". Gag. How foul.


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Be a total *****. It's the only thing that makes them stop. Seriously. Maybe even throw an "ugh" and a look of disgust in there too.

You've given desperado this advice before, aye? Maybe that's why he sounds like a bitchy chick to me.
 

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