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I know, that's basically my move set, calling the girl I like a name. Apparently I never grew out of kindergarten
Marriage.
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I know, that's basically my move set, calling the girl I like a name. Apparently I never grew out of kindergarten
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I thought 37 was too old for you? Is he just someone you know or is he a bro?
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No they do not, seen plenty of couples get divorced and remarried in the church.
I thought that was an old out of date practice though
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My best friends brother in law.
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we almost excommunicated someone for living with his GF for 5 years and refusing to marry her until his family accepted her for being a flaky vegan wiccan.
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so a bro-in-law?
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Societal/Family pressure.... I mean there is an ideal time for marriage and having kids.... but people get way too hung up on it.
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My church, ******. I just heard about it the other day thought it was kinda funny. It was voted down though...
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Definitely a lot of pressure from society/family. It's like if you're not married by age x there's something wrong with you. To a certain degree for ladies I can kinda get it because there's a certain point where they can't have kids anymore so if their goal is to have kids then yeah you might start to worry after a certain point, but otherwise...it's kind of dumb.
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Nothing wrong with those that adopted. Adoption is not a Plan B
Not saying you think that, just clarifying
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What kinda fucking church votes for people to be allowed to stay in/out?
What in the **** is this?
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I am in agreement. Adoption and even being a foster parent are definitely super cool ways to be a parent. In some ways I give those that do that even more credit for taking in a child that's not biologically theirs and treating them like their own. Shows a lot of character.
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you can't be this Special person.
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The most important thing is that both people have to have the same perception/definition of what marriage and meet the expectations. For example, one couple I know spends very little time together, and both do their own thing. However, the short time they do spend together, they have a LOT of fun. This is the only very happy marriage I know of right now, and they have been married 30 year.
Most marriages I know of, one partner is far more demanding than the other, and it's one sided as far as give/take. Any normal human being can only take a one sided relationship for so long.
I never understood why certain people have to be married to be happy. I am one of those that is VERY HAPPY being single. I've been through marriage, have some great kids and am very happy being single. I enjoy dating women and spending time with, I have a few very close female friends.
Also, most married women are fucking fantastic in bed !!! It's like they CRAVE having sex, and it is much easier to get them in bed.
Most marriages I know of, one partner is far more demanding than the other, and it's one sided as far as give/take. Any normal human being can only take a one sided relationship for so long.
I never understood why certain people have to be married to be happy. I am one of those that is VERY HAPPY being single. I've been through marriage, have some great kids and am very happy being single. I enjoy dating women and spending time with, I have a few very close female friends.
Also, most married women are fucking fantastic in bed !!! It's like they CRAVE having sex, and it is much easier to get them in bed.
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HHM your chuch is lik you never left the frat.
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I haven't read this thread yet, I'm posting this first before reading. Let me just say this: there is nothing better than a late night desbro thread.
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I am the exact opposite. Of all the marriages I am on good relationships with only one is in trouble and they are working thru it.