Vent about your wife/GF thread

[BNB]

Does anyone else need to vent about their wife or GF or maybe both? Do it here!


I've been with my gf for about 18 months now... Before we started dating, I told her that all I do on Sunday's is pretty much watch football all day. I haven't missed a football Sunday in like 15 years. For the longest time, I always got together with my friends every Sunday so we can just watch/talk football and shit. Over the last couple of years, some of them have moved away, so our group has shrunk significantly... but the 3 of us that are left will still get together most Sundays. And even if I'm alone, I still watch football. Especially because I pay for Sunday Ticket.

Anyway... so before we started dating, she was all like, "that's so cute how you and your friends do that!." Then we started dating, and last season was the first season we were together. She was kind of bothered by it, but never really said anything. This year? Holy ****. We're on week 3, and we've gotten into an argument every week so far. Not only that, but it's like she makes it a fuckin point to make plans on Sunday, and when I say I can't make it because I'm going to be watching football, she told me, "Of course. It's always football with you. Football and then everything else. Like I don't even matter." WTF. We do shit all the time on other days, and she generally never wants to do shit on Sunday because she has work and school the next day and doesn't wanna be too tired. Last week for example, she told me she wanted to go to Cirque du Soleil.... on Sunday of course. I didn't say anything, and made it seem like I didn't want to go. So I surprised her and bought tickets on Friday, because she wasn't expecting it. She was happy.... then come Sunday, she was pissed because I "never want to spend time with her anymore."

:enough:

 

[Ares]

When she murders you with a melon baller I will avenge you BNB....

 

[Omeletpants]

Women, you can't live with them, you can't shoot them

But seriously, you might want to consider going homo. You don't have to put up with their bitching and you get a second wardrobe for free.

 

[SilenceS]

Does anyone else need to vent about their wife or GF or maybe both? Do it here!


I've been with my gf for about 18 months now... Before we started dating, I told her that all I do on Sunday's is pretty much watch football all day. I haven't missed a football Sunday in like 15 years. For the longest time, I always got together with my friends every Sunday so we can just watch/talk football and shit. Over the last couple of years, some of them have moved away, so our group has shrunk significantly... but the 3 of us that are left will still get together most Sundays. And even if I'm alone, I still watch football. Especially because I pay for Sunday Ticket.

Anyway... so before we started dating, she was all like, "that's so cute how you and your friends do that!." Then we started dating, and last season was the first season we were together. She was kind of bothered by it, but never really said anything. This year? Holy ****. We're on week 3, and we've gotten into an argument every week so far. Not only that, but it's like she makes it a fuckin point to make plans on Sunday, and when I say I can't make it because I'm going to be watching football, she told me, "Of course. It's always football with you. Football and then everything else. Like I don't even matter." WTF. We do shit all the time on other days, and she generally never wants to do shit on Sunday because she has work and school the next day and doesn't wanna be too tired. Last week for example, she told me she wanted to go to Cirque du Soleil.... on Sunday of course. I didn't say anything, and made it seem like I didn't want to go. So I surprised her and bought tickets on Friday, because she wasn't expecting it. She was happy.... then come Sunday, she was pissed because I "never want to spend time with her anymore."

:enough:

Cut the cord

 

[SilenceS]

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[airtime143]

Good god- get rid of her.

An established pastime around far longer than she has been that has always been crystal clear is absolutely your right. If she wants to insidiously creep in to that territory, then it is a microcosm of her desire to control.

Which trait of yours is next on the hit list?
I guarantee that if she wins this battle, it will snowball to the rest of your life.


My lady and I are a perfect match. Brian Urlacher was still in school when we got together.
A#1 rule to longevity is your own time and pursuits. Your individuality. She has the horses, I have the cars and bikes, all to our own. I dont visit the barn unless I need to pick up the trailer or am invited, she stays out of the garages unless I invite her in.


On the flip side, A buddy that used to wakeboard with me got married... and he allowed encroachment.She was just fine with it until the ring... now it is church on sundays and shopping on saturdays.
He may get a night every couple of months to go work on his car at his brothers house for an hour or 2... but beyond that he gets zero freedom.
Divorce proceedings are underway.

The bottom line is this- Give an inch, they will take your balls.

 

[Mitchapalooza]

That's why I don't date at the moment. As soon as they get controlling I'd just tell em to **** off. I strictly hook up.

 

[Omeletpants]

 

[airtime143]

That's why I don't date at the moment. As soon as they get controlling I'd just tell em to **** off. I strictly hook up.

You are a wise man.

 

[xer0h0ur]

Good god- get rid of her.

An established pastime around far longer than she has been that has always been crystal clear is absolutely your right. If she wants to insidiously creep in to that territory, then it is a microcosm of her desire to control.

Which trait of yours is next on the hit list?
I guarantee that if she wins this battle, it will snowball to the rest of your life.


My lady and I are a perfect match. Brian Urlacher was still in school when we got together.
A#1 rule to longevity is your own time and pursuits. Your individuality. She has the horses, I have the cars and bikes, all to our own. I dont visit the barn unless I need to pick up the trailer or am invited, she stays out of the garages unless I invite her in.


On the flip side, A buddy that used to wakeboard with me got married... and he allowed encroachment.She was just fine with it until the ring... now it is church on sundays and shopping on saturdays.
He may get a night every couple of months to go work on his car at his brothers house for an hour or 2... but beyond that he gets zero freedom.
Divorce proceedings are underway.

The bottom line is this- Give an inch, they will take your balls.

^Truer words have never been spoken.

Its fucking evil as shit that women find it necessary to take away things which are sacred to a man. I don't fucking care what it is. If it means a lot to you, she will try to take it.

 

[KittiesKorner]

My wife burned my croissanwiches this morning. I went full hawk and beat her with the power cord to the vacuum cleaner. She won't make that mistake again. #blessed

 

[xer0h0ur]

Well, that escalated quickly.

 

[Run the ball]

Break her in early bro, and if it's not breaking, dumpsville!

Been with my wife for 12 years, she makes plans on Sunday's, just not with me

 

[Ares]

My wife burned my croissanwiches this morning. I went full hawk and beat her with the power cord to the vacuum cleaner. She won't make that mistake again. #blessed

Jim Johnson approves this message

 

[xer0h0ur]

 

[BNB]

Good god- get rid of her.

An established pastime around far longer than she has been that has always been crystal clear is absolutely your right. If she wants to insidiously creep in to that territory, then it is a microcosm of her desire to control.

Which trait of yours is next on the hit list?
I guarantee that if she wins this battle, it will snowball to the rest of your life.


My lady and I are a perfect match. Brian Urlacher was still in school when we got together.
A#1 rule to longevity is your own time and pursuits. Your individuality. She has the horses, I have the cars and bikes, all to our own. I dont visit the barn unless I need to pick up the trailer or am invited, she stays out of the garages unless I invite her in.


On the flip side, A buddy that used to wakeboard with me got married... and he allowed encroachment.She was just fine with it until the ring... now it is church on sundays and shopping on saturdays.
He may get a night every couple of months to go work on his car at his brothers house for an hour or 2... but beyond that he gets zero freedom.
Divorce proceedings are underway.

The bottom line is this- Give an inch, they will take your balls.

I can guarantee you that she doesn't control any part of my life.. I'm pretty up front with who I am and what I like. She has complained about a couple of things about me, and I've told her that it's just who I am and that if she isn't happy with it, I'm not going to stop her from walking away.

I think it's the whole woman trying to change her man but can't thing going on. And don't get me wrong, she isn't always like this. Otherwise I wouldn't have been with her for 18 months now. But **** is it annoying. And if it persists, then I just may have to end it. I can only put up with it for so long.

And you're one of the lucky ones Airtime. Not many people can find their perfect match.

 

[BNB]

Break her in early bro, and if it's not breaking, dumpsville!

Been with my wife for 12 years, she makes plans on Sunday's, just not with me

Yeah I've always wanted to date a chick that was into sports thinking maybe they'd understand... and also we'd have even more to talk about. But at the same time, I kinda like having my own thing going on. But if that's the case, I don't want my SO bitching about it hahaha.

 

[HeHateMe]

My wife is pretty much perfect. She doesn't spend as much time on her looks these days but seems less self concious and irritable so it's a wash. She's not good with constructive criticism but I'm not going to kill her over something petty, and I don't fear for my life when I go to sleep. This is state of affairs 10 years in. Will reassess in year 15.

 

[Tater]

Good god- get rid of her.

An established pastime around far longer than she has been that has always been crystal clear is absolutely your right. If she wants to insidiously creep in to that territory, then it is a microcosm of her desire to control.

Which trait of yours is next on the hit list?
I guarantee that if she wins this battle, it will snowball to the rest of your life.


My lady and I are a perfect match. Brian Urlacher was still in school when we got together.
A#1 rule to longevity is your own time and pursuits. Your individuality. She has the horses, I have the cars and bikes, all to our own. I dont visit the barn unless I need to pick up the trailer or am invited, she stays out of the garages unless I invite her in.


On the flip side, A buddy that used to wakeboard with me got married... and he allowed encroachment.She was just fine with it until the ring... now it is church on sundays and shopping on saturdays.
He may get a night every couple of months to go work on his car at his brothers house for an hour or 2... but beyond that he gets zero freedom.
Divorce proceedings are underway.

The bottom line is this- Give an inch, they will take your balls.

QFT. Do NOT got serious with someone like that. Everyone needs their space at time.
Her throwing a pissy fit every Sunday is not gonna get any better.....ever.

 

[Urblock]

Married to the perfect woman. Have had this great thing going for 36 years and 3 kids. She's beautiful, makes a good amount of money and she is beautiful For some crazy reason she likes the Bears.