Vent about your wife/GF thread

[airtime143]

I can guarantee you that she doesn't control any part of my life.. I'm pretty up front with who I am and what I like. She has complained about a couple of things about me, and I've told her that it's just who I am and that if she isn't happy with it, I'm not going to stop her from walking away.

I think it's the whole woman trying to change her man but can't thing going on. And don't get me wrong, she isn't always like this. Otherwise I wouldn't have been with her for 18 months now. But **** is it annoying. And if it persists, then I just may have to end it. I can only put up with it for so long.

And you're one of the lucky ones Airtime. Not many people can find their perfect match.

It is good you realize it early and check that behavior early.

A straight up conversation with the bottom line being "this is my time, you were aware of this when we got together, and it will remain that way" is all that needs to be said, and she can dig it or get the hell out.

I equate stuff like that to misrepresenting themselves... pretending to understand and be fine but waiting for the opportunity to stamp it out.

That is just as disingenuous as if you were to bust your ass at work day in and day out, move in with her, and then quit your job and eat cold-cuts off of your stomach while playing video games and farting during her book club meeting.

 

[airtime143]

My wife is pretty much perfect. She doesn't spend as much time on her looks these days but seems less self concious and irritable so it's a wash. She's not good with constructive criticism but I'm not going to kill her over something petty, and I don't fear for my life when I go to sleep. This is state of affairs 10 years in. Will reassess in year 15.

The "looks" thing is not a bad way to be- You are likely not going out clubbing, and who wants to wait an hour for them to put on makeup and do their hair to go for a spin on the boat only to have them ***** you are going too fast and will mess up their hair!

I am sure you think she is pretty without makeup, and as long as you both are happier this way, that is all that matters.
Hell- with her cutting back on fashion, you save money and the added bonus is you can wear whatever the hell you like as well!
I have some hideous items of clothing that I still break out from time to time.

 

[Nick80]

Venting about your wife/gf on a message board ...

Seems a legit way of sorting through things.

I might try my luck in the Nigerian phone scam thread now, I can feel my luck is in.

 

[Warrior Spirit]

Does anyone else need to vent about their wife or GF or maybe both? Do it here!


I've been with my gf for about 18 months now... Before we started dating, I told her that all I do on Sunday's is pretty much watch football all day. I haven't missed a football Sunday in like 15 years. For the longest time, I always got together with my friends every Sunday so we can just watch/talk football and shit. Over the last couple of years, some of them have moved away, so our group has shrunk significantly... but the 3 of us that are left will still get together most Sundays. And even if I'm alone, I still watch football. Especially because I pay for Sunday Ticket.

Anyway... so before we started dating, she was all like, "that's so cute how you and your friends do that!." Then we started dating, and last season was the first season we were together. She was kind of bothered by it, but never really said anything. This year? Holy ****. We're on week 3, and we've gotten into an argument every week so far. Not only that, but it's like she makes it a fuckin point to make plans on Sunday, and when I say I can't make it because I'm going to be watching football, she told me, "Of course. It's always football with you. Football and then everything else. Like I don't even matter." WTF. We do shit all the time on other days, and she generally never wants to do shit on Sunday because she has work and school the next day and doesn't wanna be too tired. Last week for example, she told me she wanted to go to Cirque du Soleil.... on Sunday of course. I didn't say anything, and made it seem like I didn't want to go. So I surprised her and bought tickets on Friday, because she wasn't expecting it. She was happy.... then come Sunday, she was pissed because I "never want to spend time with her anymore."

:enough:

My wife gets mad every single football season. Oh, she'll whine, yell, cry year after year after year. Some 20 years later who's still watching the **** out of football every Sunday? This guy!!!!!!

 

[Urblock]

She's married to a Spartan.

 

[truthbedamned]

Just marry her. Guaranteed within 10 years she will not give a **** what you do as long as the paycheck is there on the 15th and the 30th. Just make sure you keep the fucking garage clean so she can park her car in there and you are good to go.

Been married 40 years. I am a qualified expert on the matter. I also have an online site where you can ask my expert advice........www.mywifeisabitchonsunday.com

 

[AussieBear]

woman are pyscho robots

bill burr

[video=youtube;PfCo2aIaO4E]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfCo2aIaO4E[/video]

 

[DC]

My wife burned my croissanwiches this morning. I went full hawk and beat her with the power cord to the vacuum cleaner. She won't make that mistake again. #blessed

This paragraph and what/who you're inferring + that avatar =literal lol. Thanks for the laugh after a long saturday night.

 

[DC]

I basically get one sport and I get full access to it. I don't watch baseball, basketball or hockey so she's got me for every other Sunday of the year except for football season.

Once the season starts she busts out her Kindle and gets to reading. No matter where we are or if we go on vacay, she helps me find the bar and comes with me.

Day after we were married in 08 and 6 hours before a flight to Jaiamca we were at an Old Chicago's watching the Bears beat the Steelers on a Robbie Gould field goal. God I love this woman.

 

[Parade_Rain]

My wife is a Bears fan and when we started dating 27 years ago, Sundays were at her parent's house watching the Bears. Football Sundays? No problem. She genuinely likes football.

 

[1COBearsfan]

I've only been married for a week so I don't have anything to complain about yet. The only thing going I was ever pretty annoyed about in the past though is when she was on birth control and completely detached from the world. Thankfully that's over and I have my wife back.

Edit: she is an eagles fan though, I guess I could do without that. I've been working on that since we started dating and don't appear to be making any headway. I may have to start beating her

 

[xer0h0ur]

I've only been married for a week so I don't have anything to complain about yet. The only thing going I was ever pretty annoyed about in the past though is when she was on birth control and completely detached from the world. Thankfully that's over and I have my wife back.

Edit: she is an eagles fan though, I guess I could do without that. I've been working on that since we started dating and don't appear to be making any headway. I may have to start beating her

If she's from Philly then that is just a regular Friday evening.

 

[BaBaBlacksheep]

My wife can't wait for the game. Sorry, sounds like some of you need better women in your life.

 

[1COBearsfan]

If she's from Philly then that is just a regular Friday evening.

Being beaten or being in a drug-addled detachment from reality?

 

[xer0h0ur]

There is a difference?

 

[Hbkrusso]

heres the problem


A man gets into a relationship with a woman and thinks nothings gonna change

a woman goes into a relationship thinking shes gonna change him


fact is women just ***** lol no matter what

 

[Omeletpants]

 

[Hbkrusso]

she is hawt we could make neanterthal babies together when shes growed

 

[Omeletpants]

she is hawt we could make neanterthal babies together when shes growed

I didnt say anything

 

[DrGonzo]

Does it make a difference if the Bears are not worth watching? Maybe you could lull her into thinking she's won while avoiding this shit show of a season. Then in three years when the Bears are interesting again you could be like BAM! I TOLD YOU SUNDAYS ARE MINE, *****.