Brother's suicide

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My brother did this shit 3 years ago yesterday. Went out as a coward and selfish.
 
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My brother did this shit 3 years ago yesterday. Went out as a coward and selfish.

I know you've mentioned that a couple of times, but I can't remember why...
Was he depressed?
 

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His marriage failed and he wouldn't go to work. He pulled away from all of us and wouldn't let us help him. He quit on life. He left two sons to grow up without a father. One a teen the other a toddler. What really pissed me off was that our Dad was killed when my brother was a year old. Growing up without a Dad sucks and he knew it. Selfish.
He didn't pull away from you all, you just didn't care enough to get involved and help him in his weakest time. You failed him and now he's gone and you scorn his memory as if you haven't already done enough damage.
 

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His marriage failed and he wouldn't go to work. He pulled away from all of us and wouldn't let us help him. He quit on life. He left two sons to grow up without a father. One a teen the other a toddler. What really pissed me off was that our Dad was killed when my brother was a year old. Growing up without a Dad sucks and he knew it. Selfish.



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He didn't pull away from you all, you just didn't care enough to get involved and help him in his weakest time. You failed him and now he's gone and you scorn his memory as if you haven't already done enough damage.
I would expect no less from you. You have no clue about what happened except he is dead and he left 2 kids.
 

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I would expect no less from you. You have no clue about what happened except he is dead and he left 2 kids.
I know you blog about the contempt and disrespect you have for your dead brother. Did you ever think maybe you were one of those who failed him? The fault lies not in our stars, but in ourselves.
 

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Lauren Bacall just died as well...WTF is goin on??

For those who are too young..She played opposite Bogart
 

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He didn't pull away from you all, you just didn't care enough to get involved and help him in his weakest time. You failed him and now he's gone and you scorn his memory as if you haven't already done enough damage.

What a thing to say. The victims are those left behind by the weak and selfish act. You owe Urblock an apology.
 

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What a thing to say. The victims are those left behind by the weak and selfish act. You owe Urblock an apology.
Depression is like a disease. You're not thinking right. Those closest to you could help if they cared to take the time. To judge someone, who was in that kind of mental state, so harshly is what's weak and not at all nice. Takes a brave man to disrespect the dead, doesn't it?
 

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Depression is like a disease. You're not thinking right. Those closest to you could help if they cared to take the time. To judge someone, who was in that kind of mental state, so harshly is what's weak and not at all nice. Takes a brave man to disrespect the dead, doesn't it?

You don't know how much pain and effort and help people have been given. You shouldn't make value judgments like that about people you don't know in situations you don't understand, period.
 

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Nah man... you say alot of whacky shit but you crossed a line I wouldn't expect even you to cross.
Nothing I say is whacky. I'm not as pretentious as most people, not as scared of the truth, and never worried what some shit for brains will think about what I say. You can all rally against the one you perceive as the bad guy, but it doesn't make any of you any more righteous. When a person loses their mind and all hope, I think of it as a tragic thing while you idiots obviously think of it as a joke and line up to take shots at that person you now see as an easy target.
 

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What a thing to say. The victims are those left behind by the weak and selfish act. You owe Urblock an apology.

A couple of times by my count. Starting with the crack about vaccinations...

Urblock, I apologize for asking. I only did, because I've dealt with depression for most of my adult life. Curiosity took over because I have never once considered or even thought of suicide as an option.
 

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