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It's early goings yet but I can't help but feel this thread is destined to become an IHN "Classic" of sorts a la the ever astute "Women" thread.
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canucklehead said:
Well, yeah... since she would be the first woman willing to get in bed with you. when you fluke out like that you hold on for dear life.
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Oh I'll have you know, plenty of womens have gotten into my bed... it's getting them to do so on a regular/consistent basis that's the challenge. Ask your mom.
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And bookjones - oh yeah, this one's going down like the Hindenburg... but what a beautiful, terrible fall.
 
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Soaps said:
I wish it was that easy for me but I've always cared what everyone thinks (i know it may not be right) buts thats how I am. I am working on not giving a shit, like a said its a process
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Yeah I understand its not simply something you can just "do". I wasn't always a bubbling tower of outgoingness.



What exactly are you insecure about? (If thats too personal just shoo me away)



Social situations? talking to new people? etc.etc. I mean alittle dabbelry in booze never hurts.



Although I have a story about that, when i was about 20 this friend of my buddies girlfriend I really wanted. She told my buddies girlfriend she liked me. I was really intimidated by her, I could interact with her just fine when i had little of the sauce, but couldnt spit words out when i was sober and thats where it ended. I eventually got over that problem, i dont know how exactly, i think its just from realizing hey, if a chick digs me what the **** am I all insecure about?
 

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I agree with the advice already offered. Just be yourself when you meet someone you like just start talking to them. And if it goes good get their email or phone number. And see where it goes from there.
 

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What exactly are you insecure about? (If thats too personal just shoo me away)



Social situations? talking to new people? etc.etc. I mean alittle dabbelry in booze never hurts.
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No I don't mind. I guess one of the things that im insecure about is body. I don't think its where it should be. But I kinda just came to the conclusion a few weeks ago that yes there are parts of my body that I dont and wish to change but overall I'm happy with the way I look.
 

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I will tell you what soaps. If I wasn't married I would be trying to put a roofie in your drink.





Hell, I think the wife would try that too.
 

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I will tell you what soaps. If I wasn't married I would be trying to put a roofie in your drink.





Hell, I think the wife would try that too.
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aww jako i love you and you know what i'm starting to love myself too.
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Soaps said:
No I don't mind. I guess one of the things that im insecure about is body. I don't think its where it should be. But I kinda just came to the conclusion a few weeks ago that yes there are parts of my body that I dont and wish to change but overall I'm happy with the way I look.
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I dont think anyone is every satisfied with their body. For the love of christ, when people (particularly women) see old pictures of me from about 5-10 years ago, they say wow you WERE hot nice past tense there, gee thanks. I swore of exercise when i got out of the army and rediscovered Polish Sausage and White castle.



I don't sweat it, nobody is perfect. Theres always someone that wants what you got.
 

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Though I'm no expert since I can't meet a woman to save my fucking life....having no social life doesn't help my cause either...
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So why is it that you cant seem to find someone. I'm interested in this and want to help you out
 
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Soaps said:
So why is it that you cant seem to find someone. I'm interested in this and want to help you out
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