Friend's girlfriend and facebook

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Short version. Most bitches still like attention from dudes other than their significant other. This is neither unusual or a dumpable offense unless she is actually fucking around on you or she falls outside the reasonable range on the crazy hot matrix.

What if she is giving hand jobs? Would that be a dumpable offence?
 

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My guess is she doesn't want to deal with the stupid facebook drama. Her boyfriend questioning everything that is posted on her page, her "friends" posting stupid shit to stir up drama and her family asking questions about her relationship all the time. Used correctly facebook can be a fun way to communicate with friends and family but it usually just turns into a bunch of useless drama. I say smart girl.
 

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What if she is giving hand jobs? Would that be a dumpable offence?

Hand jobs fall within the broad category of acts I consider fucking around so yes that is a dumpable offense.
 

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My guess is she doesn't want to deal with the stupid facebook drama. Her boyfriend questioning everything that is posted on her page, her "friends" posting stupid shit to stir up drama and her family asking questions about her relationship all the time. Used correctly facebook can be a fun way to communicate with friends and family but it usually just turns into a bunch of useless drama. I say smart girl.

So maybe she should have said that instead of lying about it?
 

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Maybe she thought it was none of his business. People take this social media stuff way to seriously.

She probably figured he was the kind of emo guy that rather than talk to her directly about it would instead have his friend poll a sports message board to get relationship advice.
 

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So one of my good friends apparently found out that his girlfriend had a Facebook account eventhough she had told him multiple times that she didn't have one. On top of that, her page said she was single eventhough they were suppose to be in an exclusive relationship.

Would you dump her?

What is the point of staying with this girl. At best, she's keeping secrets from him that she has no business keeping. To me, that says she's got much darker secrets she's hiding as well.
 

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What is the point of staying with this girl. At best, she's keeping secrets from him that she has no business keeping. To me, that says she's got much darker secrets she's hiding as well.


exactly. Plenty o' fish. Don't waste time on someone not willing to be honest. No need for a big freak out either. Politely and respectfully get out of the relationship
 

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Short version. Most bitches still like attention from dudes other than their significant other. This is neither unusual or a dumpable offense unless she is actually fucking around on you or she falls outside the reasonable range on the crazy hot matrix.

Personally, I would ditch her. Not for having a FB account or flirting, but for lying. There are several reasons a girl may choose to lie in this situation, and none of them are good as far as having a relationship with her is concerned. Any good relationship needs to be built on trust, and if one partner needs to lie to the other about having a freaking FB account, what chance does he have of getting the truth from her in real genuine serious matters that will arise in the future?

If it's a **** buddy, who cares? If it's an exclusive relationship, he should dump her.

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My guess is she doesn't want to deal with the stupid facebook drama. Her boyfriend questioning everything that is posted on her page, her "friends" posting stupid shit to stir up drama and her family asking questions about her relationship all the time. Used correctly facebook can be a fun way to communicate with friends and family but it usually just turns into a bunch of useless drama. I say smart girl.

That's very possible, but if so, she's going about it entirely the wrong way.

And if he's the kind of controlling, possessive, neanderthal guy who would question her every time a male likes one of her posts (and given who he's friends with, this is quite possible), then she should just dump him.
 

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If shes not already cheating on him, shes likely entertaining the thought by lying to him. She would have had a better chance getting away with it if she just told him she had a fb account. Either way, she can't be trusted as others have said. Dump the sloot.


#RIP to that relationship
 

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WGAF. It's facebook.

If you make silly rules in a relationship. GUESS WHAT, it's going to fail.


Last I checked, cheating means you **** another guy. If he thinks she sleeps around on him, then he should leave. Plain and simple. LOL @ facebook status.
 

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Has he already asked her to Homecoming?
 

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WGAF. It's facebook.

If you make silly rules in a relationship. GUESS WHAT, it's going to fail.


Last I checked, cheating means you **** another guy. If he thinks she sleeps around on him, then he should leave. Plain and simple. LOL @ facebook status.

It's not about her status, it's about her pretending she doesn't even have a FB account. Why would someone lie to their partner about that? There are only a few reasons I can think of, and they all point to /relationship.
 

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Something is wrong here...The last 2-3 days I have been agreeing with mick waaaaay too much...
 

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