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If you got to hide porn then you married the wrong chick anyway

Who admits to having a porn stash within the first few dates? A chic isn't finding out about my porn stash until at least a year. Well unless I know she is a freak and that shit will turn her on.

Everyone lies. Why can't a woman lie in a relationship when a man does? Relationships overcome dishonesty, they don't preclude it.

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To each his own I suppose. I lie to women all the fucking time about shit I don't think matters because I just don't want to deal with the drama. If I go to a club and some chic dances with me, do you think I go home and tell my girl that yeah some chic danced with me if she asks. **** no. Is it because I am hiding some deep dark secret? No, it's because having to deal with all the stupid fucking questions about a simple dance in a club that means nothing is a waste of fucking time.

Maybe all you guys are different and tell your girl every fucking thing but knowing how I am with dumb shit like this I don't give a **** if a girl figures it isn't worth the drama. This idea that in a relationship I need to be open and honest about everything is fucking stupid to me. If it's important, I will let you know. If it isn't I won't. I expect her to have the common sense to do the same. And if she is stupid enough to not know the difference between what is important and what isn't and I find out about it then she gets kicked to the curb.


like you actually talk to girls.

Quit lying to me or our internet relationship is over.
 

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like you actually talk to girls.

Quit lying to me or our internet relationship is over.

Wait you telling me you aren't a girl? I feel like Manti Teo right now. Was none of it real?
 

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Wait you telling me you aren't a girl? I feel like Manti Teo right now. Was none of it real?


Your actually imagining reading this.
 

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Who admits to having a porn stash within the first few dates? A chic isn't finding out about my porn stash until at least a year. Well unless I know she is a freak and that shit will turn her on.



QFT.

Isn't it fairly common knowledge that all guys have a trove of porn? I'm pretty sure every gal I've dated immediately assumed I watched porn and didn't care a bit about it.
 

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Isn't it fairly common knowledge that all guys have a trove of porn? I'm pretty sure every gal I've dated immediately assumed I watched porn and didn't care a bit about it.

Perhaps but if you don't have the decency to lie about it for the first few months of a new relationship then you must not think very highly of the girl. I don't reveal all my shady shit until I am sure the chic is in love first.
 

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To each his own I suppose. I lie to women all the fucking time about shit I don't think matters because I just don't want to deal with the drama. If I go to a club and some chic dances with me, do you think I go home and tell my girl that yeah some chic danced with me if she asks. **** no. Is it because I am hiding some deep dark secret? No, it's because having to deal with all the stupid fucking questions about a simple dance in a club that means nothing is a waste of fucking time.

Maybe all you guys are different and tell your girl every fucking thing but knowing how I am with dumb shit like this I don't give a **** if a girl figures it isn't worth the drama. This idea that in a relationship I need to be open and honest about everything is fucking stupid to me. If it's important, I will let you know. If it isn't I won't. I expect her to have the common sense to do the same. And if she is stupid enough to not know the difference between what is important and what isn't and I find out about it then she gets kicked to the curb.

You're lying because there is something to gain by lying, i.e. it would create problems where no you believe no problem exists. Lying about having no Facebook page makes absolutely no sense. It doesn't create less drama, or positively effect a relationship. Instead, it can only create an issue of mistrust, should the lie be figured out. Since tons of people in the US have a Facebook Account, it would have absolutely no impact on the relationship one way or the other. So, why lie about it?

If this is an exclusive relationship, as Jimmy "Don't call me Ike Turner" Johnson states, the goal should be to build on the relationship. Issues at the start, only become more pronounced over time. She needs to learn to be honest and I would say it's not worth your friend's time to develop that trait in her. I also think that her ability to learn that trait will come through failing in relationships.
 

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You're lying because there is something to gain by lying, i.e. it would create problems where no you believe no problem exists. Lying about having no Facebook page makes absolutely no sense. It doesn't create less drama, or positively effect a relationship. Instead, it can only create an issue of mistrust, should the lie be figured out. Since tons of people in the US have a Facebook Account, it would have absolutely no impact on the relationship one way or the other. So, why lie about it?

If this is an exclusive relationship, as Jimmy "Don't call me Ike Turner" Johnson states, the goal should be to build on the relationship. Issues at the start, only become more pronounced over time. She needs to learn to be honest and I would say it's not worth your friend's time to develop that trait in her. I also think that her ability to learn that trait will come through failing in relationships.

http://www.buzzfeed.com/atmccann/how-facebook-ruined-dating-and-breaking-up-too

See above bro. Plenty of people end up fighting over facebook shit. It's stupid and so there is a benefit in avoiding it. I have had plenty of girls interrogate me on some other girl they saw on my facebook. I have also had former girlfriends lie about hanging out/hooking up with me on facebook hoping for my current girlfriend to see that shit and flip out.

So yeah maybe she just doesn't want to deal with all the drama that comes with having your love life on display for 300 plus friends and more importantly ex'es to see. Or maybe she isn't that serious about the dude and is cheating on him. The fact that people are even thinking about this is evidence enough of the drama this shit causes.
 

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http://www.buzzfeed.com/atmccann/how-facebook-ruined-dating-and-breaking-up-too

See above bro. Plenty of people end up fighting over facebook shit. It's stupid and so there is a benefit in avoiding it. I have had plenty of girls interrogate me on some other girl they saw on my facebook. I have also had former girlfriends lie about hanging out/hooking up with me on facebook hoping for my current girlfriend to see that shit and flip out.

"Women never lie". - said Adam as he bit into the apple.
 

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"Women never lie". - said Adam as he bit into the apple.

Let's be real for a sec. If a women is cheating on you, you can bet it's probably not via facebook because bitches are typically more cunning than that when they do their dirt. Women probably cheat in comparable numbers to men. They are just smart enough not to get caught as much and have better PR when they do.
 

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Yeah, because she was so smart by beginning a relationship with a lie. Seriously Remy. Just stop.
 

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Yeah, because she was so smart by beginning a relationship with a lie. Seriously Remy. Just stop.

Clearly you missed the point. Women that cheat tend to be smarter than this hence why I am saying I don't think she is cheating because this isn't that smart. Well at least not cheating via Facebook. Finding someone's Facebook account is fucking easy. No respectable cheater is going to think they can get away with lying about that shit.

I mean shit dude, step your reading comprehension game up.
 

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My mistake. I forgot you date Masters and PHD pussy. :rolling:
 

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My mistake. I forgot you date Masters and PHD pussy. :rolling:

Yes, I generally date women with a college education. I didn't realize that was apparently an uncommon thing for people to do. You might want to upgrade your bitches bro. It's 2014.
 

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