If your mom got fat...

[L GUAPO]

Awesome topic. We all have friends that are in or have been in this situation. Now if your wife was hot when you got married and then got fat, that is bad. If she isn't hitting the gym, doing a little cardio a day (20 minutes is not hard), eating like crap....not doing anything about it, have a talk and give her a little time. Then, if she does not hold up her end of the relationship as the person you started with, drop her ass. Being undisciplined, lazy, selfish, and not caring about what you want is a turn off.

If they had a baby or a medical condition, that is a different story and understandable. The funny thing is that the majority of girls I know actually say dump the ***** if she isn't holding up her end of the relationship and changed as a person. The one's I know that have kids are actually in better shape now than pre-baby! Most say it is B.S. when women blame the baby for being fat years after being born.

 

[Globetrotter]

I'd tell her I was worried about her health. Get a gym membership together and make sacrifices in my own eating habits to support her.

It's scary that people can't talk to their own spouse.

 

[brett05]

So easy to divorce...pathetic

 

[JimJohnson]

So easy to divorce...pathetic

I think one thing to consider is even not getting married in the first place. The problem is that a lot of women get comfortable after marriage because they think the guys are stuck with them. So rather than marriage, just be a life partner.

If she has a problem with that, then she is likely one of the women who wants to slack off after marriage.

 

[Hbkrusso]

who cares if yer wife gets fat as lonbg as shes cookin dinner the house is clean and shes rubbin yer weiner I say its a good deal no matter how fat she gets lol of course mines not fat but I couldn't give a **** if she got fat or not

 

[JimJohnson]

who cares if yer wife gets fat as lonbg as shes cookin dinner the house is clean and shes rubbin yer weiner I say its a good deal no matter how fat she gets lol of course mines not fat but I couldn't give a **** if she got fat or not

wouldn't you be embarrassed if you had to take her out in public though?

 

[KittiesKorner]

I don't think I want to know what you'd do if a fat woman hit you.

 

[JimJohnson]

I don't think I want to know what you'd do if a fat woman hit you.

Well if she sits on me, there wouldn't be much I could do.

 

[Urblock]

So you're a little pussy of a man?

 

[JimJohnson]

So you're a little pussy of a man?

Because I can't lift a whale if she sits on me? Guess so.

 

[Wintermute]

Because I can't lift a whale if she sits on me? Guess so.

 

[L GUAPO]

wouldn't you be embarrassed if you had to take her out in public though?

I don't know about everyone, but I would assume that most of us don't **** fat chicks...or at least not prefer to. I never have. Some can call it superficial or whatever way you want to twist it, but my body and mind is not attracted to big, chunky, cellulite, animal looking females. I couldn't and wouldn't rise to the occasion. I am attracted to fit and nice looking females.

A few of my married friends used to be happy with their wives before they got married, but ***** rightfully so about how their wives have gained weight and not done anything about it. They don't really want to get divorced but really don't enjoy sex anymore and that is really sad and a huge thing for men. Some beat off to porn stuff while others cheat whenever they get a chance or on business trips. I really don't blame them because they all take care of themselves and it just isn't fair and selfish of their wives.

It's funny but quite a few girls from other countries that I know have said if they get fat, they know that their man will look and possibly go elsewhere....so they do their best to keep in shape and not dike their hair short to keep a happy marriage. It's reality here folks, nothing mean-spirited. Just the way it is.

 

[Desperado34]

Too tired n gotta be up in 3 hrs but I gotta say that Guap literally posted 10000% truth in his post. The amount of married men I've met working at the gym who were miser ale as shit Bc their wives got fat and lazy was all the time.

I love my ladies fit and in shape, too. So many couples I know/knew at the gym cheated Bc of the others fault w caring for themselves.

 

[brett05]

I think one thing to consider is even not getting married in the first place. The problem is that a lot of women get comfortable after marriage because they think the guys are stuck with them. So rather than marriage, just be a life partner.

If she has a problem with that, then she is likely one of the women who wants to slack off after marriage.

More like you cant man up and make a commitment

 

[Run the ball]

Pretty easy to tell who's been in relationships and who hasn't in this thread.

 

[Run the ball]

Awesome topic. We all have friends that are in or have been in this situation. Now if your wife was hot when you got married and then got fat, that is bad. If she isn't hitting the gym, doing a little cardio a day (20 minutes is not hard), eating like crap....not doing anything about it, have a talk and give her a little time. Then, if she does not hold up her end of the relationship as the person you started with, drop her ass. Being undisciplined, lazy, selfish, and not caring about what you want is a turn off.

If they had a baby or a medical condition, that is a different story and understandable. The funny thing is that the majority of girls I know actually say dump the ***** if she isn't holding up her end of the relationship and changed as a person. The one's I know that have kids are actually in better shape now than pre-baby! Most say it is B.S. when women blame the baby for being fat years after being born.

Women don't say dump the *****, that's a ridiculous exaggeration.

 

[Run the ball]

Eventually, many of you will realize how you're being shallow little fucks right now, but only with age and maturity will this happen.

 

[Run the ball]

I just got 5 married women(all good to very good looking) here @ work to read that "dump her" shit, lol. Ya, not one agrees with your lady friends. Actually they were all visibly pissed off and fairly taken back by it all. One asked me WTF I was reading, haha!

 

[brett05]

RTB is right on, shocking that none of the boys on the board realized how self involved they are.

 

[clonetrooper264]

If you marry a girl just because she's hot, you're going to have a bad time