If your mom got fat...

[Hbkrusso]

id soak dat ***** in gravy and and lick dat ***** clean

 

[Hbkrusso]

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[Urblock]

id soak dat ***** in gravy and and lick dat ***** clean

I'm going to be sick. Thanks.

 

[malcore]

Or they have kids and work and don't have as much time to exercise. You're generalizing and, quite frankly, sounding like quite the misogynist. I would venture a guess that more males let their weights get to extremes than females.

Likely true, and that is usually interpreted as a man being content, while in a woman's case, the extra weight is interpreted as lazy, giving up, or some sort of psychological disorder.

 

[L GUAPO]

Nah, I pass judgement on non married guys that are trying to tell married guys how it should go. But hey, keep on kicking ass on the Internet, I think you might start winning one of these days .... then again probably not.

Still waiting for an answer on how you could actually type that girls cannot say the words "dump that *****"? How could you actually say that...seriously...without thinking how stupid you would look. You are 100% wrong on this one.

Are you in denial or something? You do realize women can speak up about other women right? Coming from a guy that has an avatar of a hot woman, your posts are a bit laughable. Can't you see that? Unless of course your wife is that hot and cool as can be. I am going to bet no on that one. I am also.going to bet that that picture is of one of your favorite hot women and I bet you would love to be married to that hot woman...and she is pretty fit huh? You would be really happy too if she were cool as **** too. Just deal with your depression and looking at pics of hot women and realize that you didn't set your standards that high. Some guys want that so don't judge them just because you are in a different situation and stop with the incorrect comments and assumptions....it will help

 

[L GUAPO]

I just did not believe they really talked to them unless it was in some terrible context like "Hon...I can't have sex with you anymore because of all this weight you are gaining. You need to do something about it."

If they are in shape...they should involve their wives in their gym/running/biking trips. They should be more invested in trips to the grocery store and what kind of food you are both eating (and don't buy a bunch of stuff that says "diet" on it).

If they really approached their wives with solutions for them both to participate in and were completely honest and sincere with their wives and the response was "Don't care!"...they married horrible women.

In context of the OP...these wives were hot at one time, so maybe your friends looked past the fact she was a selfish **** because that body would not quit. In that case...your friends are shortsighted and shallow. Get new ones.




It is been that high for sometime now because people get married for all the wrong reasons. Not because one got fat and selfish. Any decent sex therapist will tell you the problem usually is that they were never sexually compatible in the first place...if that is the case. Otherwise they would tell you what I just said above...honest discussion and teamwork.

People do change physically, but personality and other mental traits change very little. So your friends are taking no responsibility or they married very irresponsible people...either way they can only blame themselves.

Again, many people I know do engage in mature conversations and do talk with their wives about issues, go shopping at Mother's market together (health food store), try to workout, etc...They did this more often when they first got married and before. When they bring it up, some wives are just less caring than they used to be that's all. You can understand that. How are these guys supposed to know that this would happen over time again? Plus their sex lives were great and they were both extremely happy earlier on. I'm sure you can see that as well. But the statements that it is the guy's fault for not seeing this comming and not being sexually compatable at the beginning is totally off base and incorrect.

Every couple has the right to be happy and should care about their partner's needs. No need to live a bit unhappy if issues can be resolved and sacrifices made

 

[Run the ball]

Still waiting for an answer on how you could actually type that girls cannot say the words "dump that *****"? How could you actually say that...seriously...without thinking how stupid you would look. You are 100% wrong on this one.

Are you in denial or something? You do realize women can speak up about other women right? Coming from a guy that has an avatar of a hot woman, your posts are a bit laughable. Can't you see that? Unless of course your wife is that hot and cool as can be. I am going to bet no on that one. I am also.going to bet that that picture is of one of your favorite hot women and I bet you would love to be married to that hot woman...and she is pretty fit huh? You would be really happy too if she were cool as **** too. Just deal with your depression and looking at pics of hot women and realize that you didn't set your standards that high. Some guys want that so don't judge them just because you are in a different situation and stop with the incorrect comments and assumptions....it will help

5 women today at my office all read your post about what the women said, they were all disgusted.


I also never said "cannot" I said "they never say", there's a slight difference and for whatever reason you seem angry about this. No respectful woman I know would say that.


As for myself and your crazy analysis over my avatar .... :lol: keep on kicking ass brother!

 

[Urblock]

RTB you have been called out by a guy that has been in a 5 year relationship twice. The shame.:lmao:

 

[L GUAPO]

Ill go one further...the outward appearance gets a zero on the marry scale

Pretty ridiculous and sad statement right there. Are you telling me that you aren't attracted to a hot girl at first as a male? You do realize that attraction is very important sexually, physically, and emotionally right? You do realize that there are plenty of really hot women who just happen to be fit, disciplined and really cool.

When you meet girls do you go up to fat women the same as hot women? Didn't think so. If a hot fit girl is just as cool and emotionally compatable as a fat girl, pick the disciplined one so that as a couple you can be sexually happy as well. You act like it is one extreme or the other. There are plenty of fit hot women that are super cool...it is just too bad that some on here don't have that.

 

[brett05]

L Guapo. This is one of those times where u need to admit you're wrong outclassed and had reading issues in this thread

 

[Penny Traitor]

Again, many people I know do engage in mature conversations and do talk with their wives about issues, go shopping at Mother's market together (health food store), try to workout, etc...

Try? There is no try...only do or do not. Mature conversations sound like something you have to pay by the minute for. If I translate that mess...you are telling me that they are having honest dialog about the issues at hand, they are eating right and try to workout (because they are busy people or one is less enthusiastic?).

They did this more often when they first got married and before. When they bring it up, some wives are just less caring than they used to be that's all. You can understand that.

No...I don't understand how someone that used to workout a lot and eats right just suddenly got fat and I really don't understand how "some wives are just less caring than they used to be". You don't lose your ability to care naturally with age. Either something happened that caused you to stop caring or you never cared in the first place. If you are "less caring" about your spouse, your problems are much deeper than putting on some extra weight making one less physically attracted to the other.

How are these guys supposed to know that this would happen over time again?

Again?!?

Plus their sex lives were great and they were both extremely happy earlier on. I'm sure you can see that as well.

Ummm...no I can't. Nor am I sure how you know that so well...unless you were directly involved in their sex lives. No judgement if so, but I don't see how you can make that call otherwise.

But the statements that it is the guy's fault for not seeing this comming and not being sexually compatable at the beginning is totally off base and incorrect.

You are incorrectly using (and spelling) the phrase "sexually compatible". If they had great sex lives before...their compatibility is fine. This is just a body issue thing.

Every couple has the right to be happy and should care about their partner's needs. No need to live a bit unhappy if issues can be resolved and sacrifices made

I can't tell if you just totally backpedaled and agreed with me or what. Was your whole post just telling me that your friends followed all my advice and their wives are still fat and selfish after years of being beautiful and caring and there is obviously nothing to do short of divorce or a steady stream of out of town hookers?

 

[JimJohnson]

I think it's painfully obvious which guys are stuck with fatties. I feel bad for you guys. Enjoy those butter roles.

 

[Urblock]

The ones that think it's ok to hit women. Probably all they can get.

 

[Omeletpants]

 

[Omeletpants]

You guys still in here talking bout fat girls?

 

[Mitchapalooza]

You guys still in here talking bout fat girls?

Soccer brah

 

[CODE_BLUE56]

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[BaBaBlacksheep]

id soak dat ***** in gravy and and lick dat ***** clean

Mmmm... Gravy n' Rolls....

 

[KittiesKorner]

If your wife got fat..

Jim, you have children? If your wife can't have children, would you show her who's boss?

 

[L GUAPO]

5 women today at my office all read your post about what the women said, they were all disgusted.


I also never said "cannot" I said "they never say", there's a slight difference and for whatever reason you seem angry about this. No respectful woman I know would say that.


As for myself and your crazy analysis over my avatar .... :lol: keep on kicking ass brother!

That is funny that you showed a few women and they were disgusted. I showed around 10 and they all agreed that it is a reality and said that they totally understand...especially when it comes to making the relationship work on all levels. No man enjoys having sex with obese women...if you are ok with that, sorry. But most men do not and look at hot women like in your avatar....lol by the way...all day.

You just can't admit when you are wrong huh? It is pretty sad and makes you look like a coward. Now you are saying that you said "they never say" rather than "cannot"? Are you fucking serious? Pretty sad how you are trying to twist it but the point still remains that you say the dumbest shit. How could you say that a woman NEVER says dump the *****? Women HAVE said this before. Maybe you need to get out more or hang out with secure women that are opinionatedbut you do realize that women have said that phrase before and just because you have not heard it, doesn't mean it never happened.

No respectable woman I know would not say that when they see a situation where the man is working soo hard and taking care of himself and is unhappy, while the woman just doesn't care anymore about the needs of the other.

Can't believe you actually typed the word never. You do realize you are 100% wrong on this and sound really ignorant right but please keep rolling buddy lol