I do have a job and I do pay bills. I'm also a full time student and I graduate in 2 months. There is such thing as free time. I forgot some of you are in bed by 7.
We all have some free time Mrs G, but honestly figure out how much free time you have to fill up with non-adult tasks such as bills, family functions, cleaning, fixing stuff, etc in your average week?
Now subtract the time you spend on normal entertainment stuff.... movies, TV, sports, dinner with friends/family, birthdays, etc.
Now how much time are you truly trying to fill ? And what are you wanting to fill in that time which you cannot do because of location of where you live or because of cold/snow during the Winter months?
Personally I realize the winter can suck, and it can be depressing and it can weigh on you.... but consider how much you enjoy things that come up during the Spring and Summer... events that come up during those periods which are not available year round.... Taste of Chicago.... if that event was once a month would it be special? Local events of similar nature.... summer fests.... Fall fests.... if weather was constantly the same and attractions were always available and always the same.... how enjoyable are they?
I look at the Winter as a challenge every year.... a challenge that is easy to overcome now with an AWD vehicle and some good books, movies, video games, and friends/family.... where as 100 years ago or further back you might worry about whether or not you had stored enough food to get you by.
You should not look at the Chicago Winter as robbing you of 4 months of your life, but enriching the other 8 months of the year.
Just my 2 cents..... look for once I am not trolling you Mrs G, enjoy it