The configuration matters for sure. I don't like driving vans with a manual, but have no problem doing it. My current daily driver is a 5speed stick, previous was a 6speed, and of the 11 vehicles before I owned and drove, only three were automatic. So while I do have my preference, I also don't think automatic is instantly worse or less enjoyable. I also try to avoid things like electronic power steering, because I'm one of those people that needs to feel connected to the road. Although I admit, some cars are there with full range response time, but some of those cars also auto-correct inputs with no way of disabling the so-called "feature".
For the purpose of this conversation, I hope we don't get someone who tries to claim their paddle shifter or clutchless automatic that allows manual shifts is the same as a manual transmission. A manual, and I hope you're with me on this, means there is a mandatory clutch pedal that if went ignored means you're grinding through gears to make shifts(queue Family Guy meme).