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Among Zeppelin albums, III is criminally underrated.
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I'm back on the dating scene. Really trying to push the idea of first dates being over breakfast, first thing in the morning. I assume you look good at your best, that's why I set the date in the first place. I want to see you at what you might think is your worst.
Yeah, I don't care how you look on a night out. I'd like to know more what I'm waking up to.Good idea. When I go to breakfast with people on the weekends I'm typically hungover with like sheet marks on my face and body.
Yeah, I don't care how you look on a night out. I'd like to know more what I'm waking up to.
Then you're out.You'd definitely get a more accurate picture. Although, I think that most women would get themselves up earlier and avoid the drinking the night before to look their very best to impress a dude.
Then you're out.
My point remains. If I've already made the proposition of a first date, I already assume that you're a knockout (subjective) when your dolled up. Why not start with the idea of how you are when you first wake up, and go from there? It's why I don't understand why people are so unwilling to sleep with each other early in a relationship. If you are not compatible sexually, it's probably not going to work out in the long run. Why set an arbitrary number of dates to allow that to happen before you find out? That honestly seems selfish on the woman's part.How would you be able to tell either way? Girls have magical abilities. I have some shit I bought in a can that I can spray on my hair instead of washing it that'll make it look brand new. Why are a tricky species.
My point remains. If I've already made the proposition of a first date, I already assume that you're a knockout (subjective) when your dolled up. Why not start with the idea of how you are when you first wake up, and go from there? It's why I don't understand why people are so unwilling to sleep with each other early in a relationship. If you are not compatible sexually, it's probably not going to work out in the long run. Why set an arbitrary number of dates to allow that to happen before you find out? That honestly seems selfish on the woman's part.
Yeah, that's my whole point. I'm not going to pretend to know JL's story, but I'm over 30, and I prefer to date girls in their 30's. The whole 'lets get dressed up and do something fancy' on a first date is tired, and seems nothing more than just a game. Let's fucking hang out and shoot the shit over a couple of beers, let me see who you really are, you'll see who I really am. I'll pick up the check, and if we have fun, let's do it again somewhere nice where you can get dressed up.I like to see a chick without makeup before I date her. Some go from like a 9 to 4 without it.
Honestly, the best first date I ever did was taking a girl to a haunted house. We went out for a few drinks, and she admitted that at one of the parts where it was pretty scary that she farted. It was fucking hilarious. I guess to me, there is something very sexy and appealing to exposing that vulnerability to someone you just met. I always on a first date say something, sometimes its big sometimes its small, vulnerable to gauge their reaction. If it looks like they can't handle it - nice meeting you and wish you the best of luck in the future.I think I agree with you more than you believe. Some women lack the confidence to go out without makeup on and hair done. They're unwilling to hop in the sack for either moral reasons/personal beliefs and or physical insecurities and fears of inadequacy. It doesn't make them a bad person or a girl you should overlook.
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Honestly, the best first date I ever did was taking a girl to a haunted house. We went out for a few drinks, and she admitted that at one of the parts where it was pretty scary that she farted. It was fucking hilarious. I guess to me, there is something very sexy and appealing to exposing that vulnerability to someone you just met. I always on a first date say something, sometimes its big sometimes its small, vulnerable to gauge their reaction. If it looks like they can't handle it - nice meeting you and wish you the best of luck in the future.