OT: My wife and I lost our son on Wednesday; prayers needed

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I am terribly sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
 

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So sorry to hear. Prayers for you and your family.
 

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Very sorry to hear that. I recently had my first child and im am so greatful it turned out ok. My heart truly goes out to you and your wife and i hope you have a future filled with many healthy beautiful children. I wish you the very best. stay strong.
 

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I'm just a low-key lurker.. I watch but don't contribute much. Have done so for almost 3 years.. Lurked cbmb before that. .I can't imagine the hurt you are feeling.. You will have my family's prayers. Though I haven't experienced the pain you are going through, my wife has. She lost a brother at a young age in a similar situation. We will be there with you in spirit.
 

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We don't know each other but we all share a level of humanity that's common. I honestly want to thank you for your raw share of personal termoil and say we are here for you. Life events like this go beyond football alliances and makes us remember what's improtant.

You are a good person for reaching out and I'm sure I'm over speeking for the board, but we are here for you. Stay strong, do what you can do and know there's a network that cares.

Only to add a joke - at this point it's a 6 page thread that doesn't involve Culter. That's an annomoly and shows we as a larger group cares. You and your family are far bigger than Cutler/Marshall/free agency and deserve that respect.
 

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So sorry Bearly, prayers for you and your family.
 

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Let it out brother. I have also had this same situation and it is the MOST sobering feeling you could ever imagine. The important thing is trying not to let this situation drive a wedge between you and your girl. I strongly suggest from my own experience is that you dont make this something that you guys are afraid to talk about to each other. Dont let this become the elephant in the room for you guys. Unfortunately , we didnt do that and the first two years was almost like living with a stranger. Do not let this happen to you buddy. Keep ya head up and this too shall pass.
 

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this same thing just happened to my nephew, there are support groups for this you may want to consider, let me ask them about that and get back to you...my condolences
 

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This is entirely off topic, but I really don't give a ****.

I haven't even been on these boards that long and don't really "know" any of you, but I just needed to get away from family for a minute and vent this into the ether.

Wednesday afternoon, my wife and I went into her 39-week exam, thinking that in the next day or so we'd be going through labor.

Shockingly, our doctors could not find a heartbeat, and it was discovered that our son passed away sometime within the day or two previously.

Needless to say, our world was obliterated in an instant.

Later that night, we delivered our son via cesarean and were able to spend some time with him - easily the most gut-wrenching thing I've ever experienced.

I took my wife home from the hospital this morning, and I just wanted to take a quick minute to please ask for your prayers and to keep my family in your thoughts.

Also, if you have children, please hug them extra tighter tonight.

You're lucky to have them.



Tragedies like these hammer home how precious and special life is. Sorry for your loss.
 

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You and your wife will be in my prayers, and I wish you guys nothing but the best through all of this. I lost my 6 year old son less than a year ago and the pain that comes with it is gut wrenching. The biggest advice I can give you is do everything and anything to memorialize him. I dedicate everything I do to my son and will continue until the day I die.

Sorry to hear this. My love and condolences go out to you. My son died 4 months ago and you are right it its gut wrenching. He was my first. May our sons and Bearly all be together at this moment including my unborn twin that were miscarriage early last year. Find comfort that we know the pain together and for that I can never measure a pain of mine against anyone else's ever. Peace to you heart and soul for you and your family. I say in allot ways that my son was saved from this crazy and sometimes hard and hateful world. As humans though especially as parents we want to live life in the order of things such as us first but unfortunately it is always so.


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I know what it's like to lose family and the impact that it has on the ones who are left to deal with the heartache. My heart goes out to you. There are no words, but just know that you are in my thoughts today. Bless you.
 

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This is entirely off topic, but I really don't give a ****.

I haven't even been on these boards that long and don't really "know" any of you, but I just needed to get away from family for a minute and vent this into the ether.

Wednesday afternoon, my wife and I went into her 39-week exam, thinking that in the next day or so we'd be going through labor.

Shockingly, our doctors could not find a heartbeat, and it was discovered that our son passed away sometime within the day or two previously.

Needless to say, our world was obliterated in an instant.

Later that night, we delivered our son via cesarean and were able to spend some time with him - easily the most gut-wrenching thing I've ever experienced.

I took my wife home from the hospital this morning, and I just wanted to take a quick minute to please ask for your prayers and to keep my family in your thoughts.

Also, if you have children, please hug them extra tighter tonight.

You're lucky to have them.


Thats awful man, so sorry to hear that. Gotta be the toughest thing in the world. Defiantly in my prayers
 

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Bearly, sorry for your loss. I hope you and your wife can get through this. You're in our thoughts.


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Sorry to read about your loss bearly, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong and support your wife my friend. Come here to vent any time.
 

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