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Is the institution of marriage a joke?

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Uh, no...in this case...."What you talking about Willis??"

I'm in the process of petitioning for a K1 visa for my fiancée--and if that happens, hopefully a greencard for her. But I'm doing it because I want to spend the rest of my life with her, not just so she can be in the states.
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I'm in the process of petitioning for a K1 visa for my fiancée--and if that happens, hopefully a greencard for her. But I'm doing it because I want to spend the rest of my life with her, not just so she can be in the states.
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I have a friend I went to school with who married a Canadian lady and I was teasing them recently about their "plot" to bring another illegal immigrant in here. So your not the only one. Lol.
 

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I'm in the process of petitioning for a K1 visa for my fiancée--and if that happens, hopefully a greencard for her. But I'm doing it because I want to spend the rest of my life with her, not just so she can be in the states.
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I did not know this, so no mal-intent was intended, obviously. Also, by your statement, you are not the example I was pointing to. There are those that marry for convenience, getting the visa to come to the states i.e. marrying long enough to become naturalized, then divorcing, see this shit all the time in the military.....chick latches on to that 18 year old kid right out of boot camp, on his first deployment, marries him, comes to the states, gets her family here, then dumps his ass. There are those that do it for monetary and benefit reasons....the whole 'You'll get the inheritance if you marry by age 25' shit does happen.
 

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I did not know this, so no mal-intent was intended, obviously. Also, by your statement, you are not the example I was pointing to. There are those that marry for convenience, getting the visa to come to the states i.e. marrying long enough to become naturalized, then divorcing, see this shit all the time in the military.....chick latches on to that 18 year old kid right out of boot camp, on his first deployment, marries him, comes to the states, gets her family here, then dumps his ass. There are those that do it for monetary and benefit reasons....the whole 'You'll get the inheritance if you marry by age 25' shit does happen.

And I don't deny that at all. And yes, I've taken my share of the "mail order bride" bullshit (despite us having dated for over 5½ years).



Besdides, She's the only one of her family tht wants to come over here--and that mainly to be with me, not for the usual reasons.



Believe me. Those that abuse that system are making it harder for Miška (my fiancée) and I do do this the legal, right way.
 

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I'm in the process of petitioning for a K1 visa for my fiancée--and if that happens, hopefully a greencard for her. But I'm doing it because I want to spend the rest of my life with her, not just so she can be in the states.
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how did you meet your future wife?
 

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how did you meet your future wife?

We have been pen pals (well, e-mail pen pals) for a long time. She wanted someone to practice english with and I wanted someone to give me an alternative view of things happening without the american media's spin on everything.



A number of years later she decided to come over here on a summer work program (about 5 years ago) and it just happened. Not that I'm complaining.
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We have been pen pals (well, e-mail pen pals) for a long time. She wanted someone to practice english with and I wanted someone to give me an alternative view of things happening without the american media's spin on everything.



A number of years later she decided to come over here on a summer work program (about 5 years ago) and it just happened. Not that I'm complaining.
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Is she Chinese?
 

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What's Slovak? Is that Russian?

Slovak is Slovak. Specifically from Slovakia. Slovakia is a Small country in central europe that is most known for beautiful women and ice hockey. Add in great beer and you have the trifecta.
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Seriously, for a breif history: after the celts came and went from the area in the 5th century, the area was settled by the western slavs which became ethnically distinct from the Moravians, Czechs, and Poles. Through the middle ages they had a few kingdoms in the area (Empire of Samo, Principality of Nitira), before being absorbed into the Hungarian, and later Austrio/Hungarian empire. Wth the dissolution of the Austrio/hungarian empire, the 1st Czechoslovak state emerged. After Germany took over the Czech portion of the Czechoslovak state (specifically Bohemia, Moravia, and Silesia), the Slovaks found themselves as a puppet state of the Nazi regime. WWII came and went and Czechoslovakia came around again as a warsaw pact nation. There was a failed democratic uprising in the 60's, and the country stayed commmunist until the Velvet Revolution when the country became democratic. In 1993, The Czech Republic and Slovakia split amicably in the "Velvet Divorce", and Slovakia became an EU member in 2004.



Having been there, the country is gorgeous. The economy is decent, and the people are fairly friendly. Ice Hockey is one of their biggest sports. Some of the best Slovaks to play ice hockey are Stan Mikita, Peter Stastny, Peter Bondra, Marain Hossa, Pavol Demita, and Miroslav Šatan. And of course, you can add Tomas Kocpecy to the list of Slovak players
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What the **** does it matter what nationality she is.
 

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What the **** does it matter what nationality she is.

It doesn't - he said her name was Miska and I thought it sounded nice. Thought it might be Chinese so I asked. Nothing wrong with that.
 

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What the **** does it matter what nationality she is.

The only way it mattered was trying to learn what customs, culture, and language to learn before I went out there.
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I just wish I knew more Slovak. She, on the other hand, is VERY fluent in English.
 

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The only way it mattered was trying to learn what customs, culture, and language to learn before I went out there.
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I just wish I knew more Slovak. She, on the other hand, is VERY fluent in English.



Dude, learn that shit. It is fun as hell! It becomes like this secret language. I have an ex that was native Chinese and it was a BLAST!
 

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My first wife was of Slovak decent (Juriga was the americanized spelling of their last name, for the life of me I do not remember the actual native spelling).....it was always funny to listen to her and My Grandpa tease each other.
 

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Believe me...I'm trying.
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I've picked up some things but I'm not as far as I'd like. I can pick things out here and there when people converse, though.
 

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I've picked up some things but I'm not as far as I'd like. I can pick things out here and there when people converse, though.



That is when it starts getting fun!



Like we had 2 chinese woman in line for food at work and they were joking about how completely average the food was. I laughed, and joked that my mother was the primary cook. And after they took their jaws off the floor...



(Mind you I am 1000 years away from fluency)



And yes, I would be a liar if I said I have not taken chicks to Chinatown for dinner to show off a little... Gotta use whatever edge you can.
 
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