Think I'm making a mistake in my thought process as not even attributing Snows lineage as the rightful ruler. Was basing it off of before we knew that, when he was simply the King of the North without having found out his Targ heritage and rightful place as the king.
So, I'll go back under my rock now in regards to that portion.
I must have missed that. Changes my thought process a bit. Still don't like the way she left the conversation with Sansa though. Smells of something bad brewing when she doesn't get what she wants (I.E. The Norths allegiance).
Reality is it probably means nothing in the end the way the show has progressed. I'm basing everything off of notions that won't matter in a couple episodes most likely.
Well I don't think it was a mistake as we were initially talking about it without considering Jon's lineage. I was just throwing that out there to say that would strengthen the case for Jon and the North if he asserted his lineage.
As for the conversation with Sansa, again ignoring Jon's lineage for now, I think the point is what Sansa is discussing could be construed as treason. Whether the North likes it or not, their ancestors agreed to accept Targ rule. That was the condition for the Targs to stop their conquest. They have now spent several centuries under Targ rule. They then rebelled against Cersei who they considered to be unjust but now as far as anyone knows (except for Dany, Jon, and Samwell), the rightful heir of the Targ dynasty has returned. The North owes her their allegiance.
So Dany is showing remarkable restraint at this point. Keep in mind while Sansa was cowering in the crypts it was Dany's people dying for her. It was Dany who took up the sword and was out there killing the undead. While Sansa in the crypt throwing said. The Dothraki came to these lands for Dany and they died for the North.
They could have left the North to their fate like Cersei did and went for Kings Landing instead. Cersei by leaving the North to their fate has given up her right to claim they owe her allegiance. That was Dany's point to Jon all along. Without bending the knee it would be a foreign power coming to the defense of others. By bending the knee, it was a Queen fulfilling her obligations to protect her people which she proved she was serious about as it was the Dothraki and Unsullied that bore the brunt of the attack.
Having said that, it is obvious the writers are creating this tension and we will have to see how it is resolved. Dany so far has not been shown to be completely totalitarian as she has freed slaves, suggested others can have autonomous rule, and came to the defense of her subjects. That is entirely reasonable and consistent with the world she lives in.