Girlfriends birthday this sunday..wants to go to a winery at noon.

[didshereallysaythat]

Perhaps because secure men don't have alarm clocks going off in their mind every time a woman makes a suggestion. The fact that you would even think along these lines is weird. Stop being so emotionally fragile and frantically overthinking everything. It's a trip to a winery for her b'day. Either be a sport and suck it up, or protest like a needy brat. I really don't think it's a big deal.



Who cares? It's a fucking week 5 game against Detroit, it's not the Superbowl. Don't be a ***** about it.

I am not being emotionally fragile. You are because you are too afraid to compromise with your woman. Why? Because you are too damn afraid of how she is going to feel, what she is going to say, when you disagree with her.

I bet if your significant other asked you to go clean the toilets right as the superbowl was starting you would say in a soft pathetic voice "yes dear".

 

[onebud34]

To the OP...I'd still poke her in the pooper....even if you aren't bitter about the Bears game.

 

[PrideisBears]

Joke =/= earnest statement.

Lighten the **** up or at least try to condescend less, dick

He can't help if. Hopefully his girlfriend ask him to go to a winery soon

 

[FirstTimer]

I am not being emotionally fragile. You are because you are too afraid to compromise with your woman.

Claims to not be emotionally fragile.....feels the need to over compensate by demanding a compromise on how she wants to spend her birthday because you don't want to miss a football game between two teams that are a combined 2-8.

 

[didshereallysaythat]

Claims to not be emotionally fragile.....feels the need to over compensate by demanding a compromise on how she wants to spend her birthday because you don't want to miss a football game between two teams that are a combined 2-8.

You keep bringing up the Bears game. It could be anything that you enjoy doing that can only be done at a certain time when she can go to the winery any other time.

 

[bearmick]

I am not being emotionally fragile. You are because you are too afraid to compromise with your woman. Why? Because you are too damn afraid of how she is going to feel, what she is going to say, when you disagree with her.

You're projecting. And yes, you clearly are emotionally fragile. The fact that a woman can't suggest something on her own birthday without you being paranoid about some pathetic relationship dominance thing or being cheated on shows that you're very emotionally fragile.

What you see as "white knighting", most secure adults see as simply not being an immature, selfish dick.

 

[PrideisBears]

Anyway op you choose what you want to do. You've been with this young woman for four years so apparently you two have compromised on things. Listening to us isn't going to solve your dilemma especially listening to those who swear they are always right

 

[didshereallysaythat]

You're projecting. And yes, you clearly are emotionally fragile. The fact that a woman can't suggest something on her own birthday without you being paranoid about some pathetic relationship dominance thing or being cheated on shows that you're very emotionally fragile.

What you see as "white knighting", most secure adults see as simply not being an immature, selfish dick.

Says the divorcee.

How about this. You do things your way and I will do things my way. Sound good? My way has worked so far. Yours? Not so much.

 

[FirstTimer]

You keep bringing up the Bears game. It could be anything that you enjoy doing that can only be done at a certain time when she can go to the winery any other time.

NEWSFLASH: Her birthday is not at "any other time" of the year.

 

[FirstTimer]

Says the divorcee.

Relevance?

 

[didshereallysaythat]

NEWSFLASH: Her birthday is not at "any other time" of the year.

Newsflash: Her birthday lasts 24 hours.

 

[didshereallysaythat]

Relevance?

He had bad judgement to marry a woman that he was in a bad relationship with. Probably because he was too emotionally fragile to find someone better.

 

[FirstTimer]

You're projecting. And yes, you clearly are emotionally fragile. The fact that a woman can't suggest something on her own birthday without you being paranoid about some pathetic relationship dominance thing or being cheated on shows that you're very emotionally fragile.

What you see as "white knighting", most secure adults see as simply not being an immature, selfish dick.

Typical relationship banter with DSRST:

Didshe: Where would you like to go for dinner?

Gf: I don't know, I was thinking maybe chinese?

Didshe: OH YOU'D REALLY FUCKING LOVE THAT WOULDN'T YOU?! DON'T TRY TO CONTROL ME! I WANT PIZZA!

Gf: OK, that sounds good too.Let's do that

Didshe: QUIT BEING SO DOMINEERING. WE ARE GETTING MEXICAN. YOU WILL NEVER OWN ME.

Gf: K...?

 

[FirstTimer]

Newsflash: Her birthday lasts 24 hours.

Correct. and he can watch the Bears game anytime after the game is on for a week.

So..yeah. You're children.

He had bad judgement to marry a woman that he was in a bad relationship with. Probably because he was too emotionally fragile to find someone better.

Your world view is pretty sad.

 

[bearmick]

Says the divorcee.

Way to introduce ad hominems based on events you know absolutely nothing about.

How about this. You do things your way and I will do things my way. Sound good? My way has worked so far. Yours? Not so much.

Mine is working great right now, thanks. I made a difficult choice to end a relationship with someone who had a drug problem and blew too many opportunities from myself and her family to make an effort. Now I'm in a much happier and more fun situation. It feels good not to be an over-thinking emotional cripple with a power complex. Maybe one day you'll grow up too.

 

[onebud34]

He had bad judgement to marry a woman that he was in a bad relationship with. Probably because he was too emotionally fragile to find someone better.

 

[didshereallysaythat]

Typical relationship banter with DSRST:

Didshe: Where would you like to go for dinner?

Gf: I don't know, I was thinking maybe chinese?

Didshe: OH YOU'D REALLY FUCKING LOVE THAT WOULDN'T YOU?! DON'T TRY TO CONTROL ME! I WANT PIZZA!

Gf: OK, that sounds good too.Let's do that

Didshe: QUIT BEING SO DOMINEERING. WE ARE GETTING MEXICAN. YOU WILL NEVER OWN ME.

Gf: K...?

Nice try. My wife is Vietnamese and when I first started dating her, I didn't even know how to use chopsticks. Now, Asian food is my favorite and I eat it atleast 50 percent of my meals.

 

[didshereallysaythat]

Way to introduce ad hominems based on events you know absolutely nothing about.



Mine is working great right now, thanks. I made a difficult choice to end a relationship with someone who had a drug problem and blew too many opportunities from myself and her family to make an effort. Now I'm in a much happier and more fun situation. It feels good not to be an over-thinking emotional cripple with a power complex. Maybe one day you'll grow up too.

Maybe if you really loved her you would have supported her through the drug problem. Or maybe she needed drugs because she was with you? I don't know, I wasn't there.

 

[FirstTimer]

Nice try. My wife is Vietnamese and when I first started dating her, I didn't even know how to use chopsticks. Now, Asian food is my favorite and I eat it atleast 50 percent of my meals.

Sounds like she has you whipped brah. Went from not ever eating that food to letting her dictate 50% of your meals.

bearmick had it right. You're projecting.

 

[didshereallysaythat]

Your world view is pretty sad.

Says the guy that sips chocolate milk while hanging out in the corner of Power Lifting Competitions with dudes with 40 inch waists bench 400 lbs one time with bad form.