Girlfriends birthday this sunday..wants to go to a winery at noon.

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Maybe if you really loved her you would have supported her through the drug problem. Or maybe she needed drugs because she was with you? I don't know, I wasn't there.

We both did it. We were young and met in a bad circle of friends. You make mistakes, you live and learn, you move on. It's called being an adult and growing up. Some people do it, some don't. I don't know how old you are but you're very clearly insecure and terrified. Sorry about that.
 

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Or *gasp* I learned that I really like asian food.

Or, she made brainwashed you into liking it.

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OP, why is this a thread?

Take her to the winery (compliment her), get her buzzed up (compliment her), go home and try new sex stuff (compliment her). Fun for all.

DVR Bears.

Have a nice time.
 

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We both did it. We were young and met in a bad circle of friends. You make mistakes, you live and learn, you move on. It's called being an adult and growing up. Some people do it, some don't. I don't know how old you are but you're very clearly insecure and terrified. Sorry about that.

Cool.

So let me get this straight. You would do ANYTHING with or for your gf at any time just because it was her birthday? What if she wanted you to stop watching sports all together? Maybe she thought it was unproductive. Would you do that? What if she wanted you to stop posting on sports message boards? Would you do that? How much of your life are you willing to let her control?
 

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Cool.

So let me get this straight. You would do ANYTHING with or for your gf at any time just because it was her birthday? What if she wanted you to stop watching sports all together? Maybe she thought it was unproductive. Would you do that? What if she wanted you to stop posting on sports message boards? Would you do that? How much of your life are you willing to let her control?

Dude. How do you function in society?
 

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Cool.

So let me get this straight. You would do ANYTHING with or for your gf at any time just because it was her birthday? What if she wanted you to stop watching sports all together? Maybe she thought it was unproductive. Would you do that? What if she wanted you to stop posting on sports message boards? Would you do that? How much of your life are you willing to let her control?

I wouldn't enter into a relationship with someone in the first place who had control issues like that, so that wouldn't be an issue.

Missing a sports game because it falls on her birthday and she has something she'd like to do? Of course. That shouldn't be a big deal.

Again, the fact that you think along these lines shows alarming levels of paranoia and insecurity.
 

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Cool.

So let me get this straight. You would do ANYTHING with or for your gf at any time just because it was her birthday? What if she wanted you to stop watching sports all together? Maybe she thought it was unproductive. Would you do that? What if she wanted you to stop posting on sports message boards? Would you do that? How much of your life are you willing to let her control?

I'm confused....

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I wouldn't enter into a relationship with someone in the first place who had control issues like that, so that wouldn't be an issue.

Missing a sports game because it falls on her birthday and she has something she'd like to do? Of course. That shouldn't be a big deal.

Again, the fact that you think along these lines shows alarming levels of paranoia and insecurity.

This.
 

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I wouldn't enter into a relationship with someone in the first place who had control issues like that, so that wouldn't be an issue.

Missing a sports game because it falls on her birthday and she has something she'd like to do? Of course. That shouldn't be a big deal.

Again, the fact that you think along these lines shows alarming levels of paranoia and insecurity.

Again. It's not that she wants to do something on her birthday. It's that she picked the exact time that you had plans to do something that only takes a few hours. Maybe she would be flexible and do it at 9 am? Maybe she would be flexible and do it at 3? My wife would. She can go to the winery before or after the game. I can't change the time of the game. If she says ok, we can do it before or after, then great! If she gets mad then ask yourself why she would care so much about the exact time of noon being the only time she wanted to go.

You can call me insecure, fragile, etc. That's ok. You are still naive. I know I am not and I know that women test men with this kind of stuff all the time.
 

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It's that she picked the exact time that you had plans to do something that only takes a few hours.

A football game being on isn't "plans". It's a fucking game.

There isn't much to psychoanalyze here.

A g/f wants to go to a winery on her birthday at a time that cuts into your ability to watch an athletic event.........................this is cause for a negotiation of when you'll go?

Jesus. Good thing your wife was a mail order bride.
 

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A football game being on isn't "plans". It's a fucking game.

There isn't much to psychoanalyze here.

A g/f wants to go to a winery on her birthday at a time that cuts into your ability to watch an athletic event.........................this is cause for a negotiation of when you'll go?

Jesus. Good thing your wife was a mail order bride.

Cool. White knight.
 

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