Girlfriends birthday this sunday..wants to go to a winery at noon.

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Because it was a terrible answer. If you're such a childish brat that you can't miss a regular season Bears game for your girlfriend's birthday then you probably need to grow up.
 

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Because it was a terrible answer. If you're such a childish brat that you can't miss a regular season Bears game for your girlfriend's birthday then you probably need to grow up.

If they plan on dating for a while they both need to learn how to disappoint each other early!
 

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Because it was a terrible answer. If you're such a childish brat that you can't miss a regular season Bears game for your girlfriend's birthday then you probably need to grow up.

Can't agree more. It's her biggest day of the year and he's worried about the 2-3 Bears vs the 0-5 Lions? People need to prioritize in this world.
 

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Four years. Is she expecting you to propose? Time to shit or get off the pot.

Dated my girlfriend (now wife) for nine years before I proposed
 

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Sack up and tell her to wait.


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For the record i have never missed a game during our 4 years of dating. This just happens to be the perfect storm of bad timing


4 years??? 4 years and you're in this situation. You don't deserve to watch the Bears game. I vote go to the winery and get a season reservation for every Sunday afternoon.. maybe they have a nice mani/pedi package that goes along with it. This situation should have been rectified 4 years ago. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but missing Bear's games is nothing to joke about. Plus, who celebrates a birthday on a Sunday afternoon?? There are 2 weekend nights every week that make way more sense. She clearly knows what she's doing and I don't like it. Truly, I am here to help you. You don't miss Bear's games. Plus, remember, she likely already cheated on you.
 

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Can't agree more. It's her biggest day of the year and he's worried about the 2-3 Bears vs the 0-5 Lions? People need to prioritize in this world.

Oh get over it. Biggest say of her year? It's just a dumbass birthday. Nobody cares once you're over 21 and that's the way it should be
 

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She is testing you man, don't do it. If you do she will always have shit to do during football games. I told my wife from the start, I will do whatever you want whenever, but not during Bears games, or playoff games of Chicago teams. We been together 14 years. Compromise is important, spending time and giving attention is also important, but it goes both ways.
 

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Says the divorcee. How did being a white knight feminist pushover work out for you?

Yup. Guys that are nice pushovers then wonder why their asshole acquaintance is banging 10s while they are in an unstable relationship with a 5 who is only with you because she can't do any better herself. Then eventually that relationship falls through and they make the same mistake over and over again until they eventually find another 5 who will marry them only because that woman is to insecure to keep dating at her age. Then they go through their entire marriage "obeying" their wife and giving into their every command. Then some guys even get divorced because the wife got tired and bored of the guy being a pushover and started fucking more interesting men who were a challenge. That's if the guy even has the stones to take the initiative to file the divorce papers. Most of the time it is the woman that initiates it even though she was the one doing the cheating, lmao. Then the divorced guy goes and makes the same mistake again.
 

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I thought we were supposed to slay 10's?
 

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Yup. Guys that are nice pushovers then wonder why their asshole acquaintance is banging 10s while they are in an unstable relationship with a 5 who is only with you because she can't do any better herself. Then eventually that relationship falls through and they make the same mistake over and over again until they eventually find another 5 who will marry them only because that woman is to insecure to keep dating at her age. Then they go through their entire marriage "obeying" their wife and giving into their every command. Then some guys even get divorced because the wife got tired and bored of the guy being a pushover and started fucking more interesting men who were a challenge. That's if the guy even has the stones to take the initiative to file the divorce papers. Most of the time it is the woman that initiates it even though she was the one doing the cheating, lmao. Then the divorced guy goes and makes the same mistake again.

All this may exist in your personal life/reality, but you should know that many people have a differing set of values and experiences.

And, if you have your own belief system and principles, why are you seeking the advice of others?
 

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Take her after the game. It's not like a winery closes at 4 PM. I'm lucky, though. My wife's birthday is in April.

Actually, all of California and most west coast wineries close between 4:00 - 5:00 pm. Don't think I've been to a domestic winery outside of CA/OR/WA.
 

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Because it was a terrible answer. If you're such a childish brat that you can't miss a regular season Bears game for your girlfriend's birthday then you probably need to grow up.

It's a fucking birthday.

We are not talking about the birth of a child or a funeral here.

Things I will miss a Bears game for

-Childbirth
-Wedding, but pissed at the friend.
-Funeral
-My Kids Events
-To Keep my Job
-Family Illness or Emergency

Everything else is made up important.
 
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Pop quiz hotshots...................

Lets say your much younger girlfriend only gives up the ass when she is on the rag. It also happens to be your wife's birthday weekend and she wants to go for a weekend getaway. The Bears can or cannot be playing. Ditka can or cannot be coaching with min-ditka playing QB.

What do you do? What dooooooooo you dooooooooo?
 

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It's a fucking birthday.

We are not talking about the birth of a child or a funeral here.

Things I will miss a Bears game for

-Childbirth
-Wedding, but pissed at the friend.
-Funeral
-My Kids Events
-To Keep my Job
-Family Illness or Emergency

Everything else is made up important.
Ha. My grandpa had my aunt and said "ok, great.. She's healthy.. Can we bring her home? Golf is on in an hour" lmao
 

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